Before my best freind got married, we would hang out all of the time. Go out to eat, clubs, watch moies. During the time I've had feelings for him. I would think about him all the time. There was a rumour being spread about us the we was a couple, but we wasnt. Things that would have me think he gay, he would tell me that he wish I was girl cause we hung out all the time. There been sometimes he would know I get jealous when he with someone else, he would get jealous to. We would also have eye contact and he would com to my job everyday. He also would tell me he miss me when I'm gone out of town, when I wanted to end our friendship because of something that took place, he would almost cry, and tell me how it could work out. Sometimes I wanted to end the friendship because of the way I felt about him, even cried sometimes. Now hes married(i was best man)and has a baby. Now I'm alone, I been avoding him because of my feelings for him.
do you think hes bi, it dosent mattr now
2007-02-08 12:54:38 · 9 answers · asked by jermaine d 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It doesn't really matter, as you said. The guy is married. Even if he did reciprocate your feelings in the same way, you'd be the "other woman" and that is NOT a role you want to play.
I am sorry for your pain. With slight variations of the scenario, I think most of us have been where you are at the moment.
2007-02-08 13:00:28 · answer #1 · answered by castle h 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 12:38:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter now my friend. He has done gone and got married. I do feel bad for you though and wish you well.
2007-02-08 15:30:13 · answer #3 · answered by kar506 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does matter. Your best friend is still your friend. Don't avoid him, and ask him straight out. He'll respect you more for asking the question then for avoiding him.
2007-02-10 07:33:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't matter now..he's made his choices and it's up to you to make some choices and move on with your life. It's not easy but time will make it ease .
2007-02-08 13:33:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No its all you hes not bi or gay hes straight, he was trying to be a good freind to you but you ruined it.
2007-02-08 13:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not unless you guys had a passionate night of romance together.
2007-02-08 13:00:07 · answer #7 · answered by MyOpinionMatters 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,there's an excellent chance he's one of the three,just ask him
2007-02-08 14:28:39 · answer #8 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think he probably is bi. i think it was all just bad timing. im sorry.
2007-02-08 13:14:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋