ok so here is my problem. plz try to help me with it. no smart alec remarks either ppl. plz.
ok well my old bf on and off since like 2 yrs ago just broke up with me. and now he is going out with my friend. and i keep getting boys asking me out. it s annoying. onlyo cuz they are not the 1 i like. but now im going out wiht a guy and i want to break up with him czu i like 1 of his best friends. but neither of them will talk 2 me. im in a slump here ppl so plz try to help me. i really really like this guy. i think i might luv him. so plz try 2 hellpp me. i will return the favor if i can! thanks
2007-02-08 12:53:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
OK, I see your problem. What does your heart feel. Listen to it, and go with your gut. Because if you do, you can't go wrong. Take my advise, and hopefully everything will work out for the better! :)
2007-02-08 12:58:40 · answer #1 · answered by Vanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww, come on. Life IS NOT. All about boys!!! Dont spend so much time worrying about it. Have you ever considered being with BOTH boys, that'd be kinda fun..JKJK! But really!! It's not worth your time to stress over it, let whatever happends, happen. Do you even KNOW that the boy you "luv" likes you. If so then go for it, dump homeboy #1 (the guy your dating now) and try and pursue home boy #2(the one you "luv") honestly though, dont spend so much time worrying about it!!! you'll have alot of that time later! I promise. Good luck!!!
2007-02-16 10:49:26 · answer #2 · answered by sarajanicew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should either
1)Try to work things out with the guy you like.Do something nice for him(Valentines Day is coming up!!)
2)Find someone else. a STEADY boyfriend I think youve been through alot and need to find someone you can lean on after all that these boys have put you through!!!
2007-02-08 21:01:47 · answer #3 · answered by Kayla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, are you sure you are not doing this as a rebound from your ex bf? coz if you're not, why are you mentioning who's he's going out with now? do u honestly think a guy would date his bestfriend's ex who dumped him? put yourself in his shoes - r u willing to jeopardise your friendship over a guy? secondly, does he have the same feelings for you? sort your feelings out first. meanwhile, go hangout with the fun group. every guy loves being around who knows hoe to have fun. who knows u might meet a new guy without all these complications.
2007-02-16 19:19:05 · answer #4 · answered by Tsarina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how could you really love someone who doesn't even talk to you?
break up with the guy that you're will now and explore your options with the other guys that ask you out. lusting for someone who doesn't return the same affections is a waste of time.
2007-02-08 20:59:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a problem! ok i would say yes to someone you know and kinda like if they ask you out (like all the people) and then maybe your ex will get jelous if he loves you or you could just go up and talk to the people you have stopped talking to...
hope i helped!
2007-02-08 20:59:21 · answer #6 · answered by Ginny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to take a "you" break and be by yourself until you figure out who you want to be with b/c you're going to cause some trouble between friends.
2007-02-08 20:59:31 · answer #7 · answered by daprty1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you make a move on anything else, dont think that you "MIGHT LOVE"him you will only worsen your situation right and you will be in a big war with your conscience.
2007-02-16 20:45:59 · answer #8 · answered by migumi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever spoken to his friend? if so just flirt a little with him... not a lot just as much so he knows you like him. also you might consider getting his number before you dump your b/f... than wait a bit then text him something friendly. dont jump into it! just ask him waht up and become his friend and then open up to him. good luck
2007-02-16 01:42:28 · answer #9 · answered by young, hot, and Aussie! (chick) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please follow your heart and the answer will come to you eventually. Do not allow yourself to be taken advantage of and love will find you. If they were really interested they would of made their intentions known sooner, its time for you to move on and you will find what your looking for. Take care Heather
2007-02-08 20:59:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋