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im 23 and just married a great man and complelty in love with him. ive been sexually active since i was 19 and not to sound nasty but I LOVE MEN! everything about them, and i love sex with men, and not to sound concided but pretty good at it too. but about 2 years ago i started to notice women, i just like there nature, soft and pretty and clean and smell nice, dont get me wrong im very girly myself, but i get turned on by lesbian porn as well. one night i met this girl online and i went on a date with her she was very attracted to me but i didnt do anything and started to ignore her calls after, i got scared of further dates and what would happen. and ive made out with one of my best friends when we were drunk once, and i secretly liked it. i wouldnt mind expermenting with a girl but when i get the chance i never go through with it. i dont know?

2007-02-08 12:46:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

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It doesn't matter if you are bisexual or not, but it is a little bit to late to find it out because you are married. I would not risk this relationship.

2007-02-12 00:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by SoIsses 5 · 0 0

I can related to your situation. I have always looked at women, as well as guys. I looked at women at lot, since I was never really chased by men a lot and I wanted to see what they liked. ANyhow, I had my 1st boyfriend at 26 and he was ok. I am now in a relationship with a GREAT great guy, the sex is AMAZING as well. One day I told him about me and my habit of looking at women. He was quite nice and he told me if I found a girl I liked I could go with her. It happened a few months ago. This girl at a party was dancing crazy and she came up to me and started flirting with me. We made out, my boyfriend was there, watching. The girl asked if he wanted to join he refused. I felt awkward, but it was a surreal feeling for me. I felt like I had missed on something that was part of me all alone.
I am still with my boyfriend. He knows I still look at women, and that now I may be inticed to be with a woman again, but if it does happen I will let him know about it. I miss feeling a woman's touch and skin and breasts. I know I'm a woman too, and feminine as well, but I still have those feelings.
Either you keep this feelings you are having to yourself and never act on them (your own fantasies), or you try to explain to your husband about those feelings, he should listen and understand you if he loves you. Sometimes talking to someone helps. I couldnt talk to any of my friends as they are pretty conservative (they accept my extravagant points of views though).

2007-02-08 19:32:10 · answer #2 · answered by Skyblue 3 · 0 0

just because you dont act on the feelings you have, that doesnt mean that you are not. but just because you feel them, doesnt make you bisexual. does that make sense? You might be...but you have to work that out...no one else can do it for you. find a good trustworthy friend that you can talk it out with. just talk out your feelings and what you think. you will find the answer.

2007-02-08 16:51:44 · answer #3 · answered by outofmymind 4 · 0 0

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