Well, me and my best friend (cassie) have been friends for 8 years, and ever since she became this other girls friend (jesica), Cassie has been acting like she doesn't even know I exist. And to make matters worse, Jesica is is "mean girl" and will steal away ALL of my friends, and its already happening! I can't let Jesica have her way because she always gets her way, and if I don't do something soon, I will punch her face in!!! Please help b-4 I kill someone!!! (not really, but I fell like it!)
2007-02-08 12:36:10 · 6 answers · asked by ♥Wild Thing♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
wild thing before to long jesica will lead cassie and your friends down a bad path and then and only then will your friends see who the real friend is in the group. Remember no matter how rough things get between you all be the bigger person and be there for your friends when this other girl moves on to a new group of friends because she gets bored with toying with your friends. In the mean time do your best to fit in but keep your gaurd up against jesica she sounds like a bad seed. Give it time it will all work out.
2007-02-08 12:45:26 · answer #1 · answered by wynesworld10000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really punch this chick in the face...Ok no,seriously,you should ask Cassie to hang out on a weekend
and start to rekindle the friendship you guys had before,tell her how you feel,or talk to her over the phone if hanging out isn't possible.If word gets around the school that Jesica is a friend-stealer,then nobody would want to be her friend because she will only destroy other friendships,if you think none of that will work,then I suggest that you go up to Jesica and tell her to go and find her own friends,or if all of this fails,why dont YOU go make some good friends that you know won't ditch you for a stupid *****. :)
2007-02-08 20:51:57 · answer #2 · answered by Shirley_Loves_Life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, obviously Cassie is not the true friend here. Jesica is probably stealing Cassie away from you just to get a reaction. If Cassie says nothing to you anymore, I'd take the hint and cut it off.
2007-02-08 20:45:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I know EXACTLY how you feel! This has happened 2 me 2! I have had a friend for 2 years, and since she became friends with this other girl this year, she hasn't been paying much attention to me either. You should try talking to your friend Cassie. Face to face though. Tell her how you feel about what is going on. Get all you need to out on the table. After your done have her talk about what you just said. Why she is doing what she is doing. If she still ignores you after you had a long talk with her, then she isn't worth being your friend. Whatever you do, don't punch anyone! LOL! Well, I hope everything works out for you and Cassie! Good luck! :)
P.S.
A good book to read is, "How to win Friends and influence People for teen girls". It is a great book! It has been helping me a lot.
2007-02-08 20:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by Vanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.. this happens to me. when cassie realises that jesica is not a real friend she will come back with u. cassie will get really bored cause jesica isnt a friend she is an enemy. wow i suck at giving advise sry!
2007-02-08 20:47:05 · answer #5 · answered by .. .. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain to her exactly how you feel and all that you've been through in your friendship. And tell her how that girl jessica is ruining your freindship, if she doesn't change just say i'll be here for you when she turns against you because you know she will.Eventually she'll come around, after she realizes what kind of person she is.
2007-02-08 20:46:35 · answer #6 · answered by melyssa star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋