My boyfriend and I are kind of bad off. We don't really trust each other that well.. Well he keeps accusing me of cheating on him and I really do not cheat on him at all! I mean I am 39 weeks pregnant.. I don't have any interest in any other guys.. Led alone having sex or anything sexual.. It really hurts me that he thinks I cheat on him.. Is he just trying to start something? Becuase that is stupid and childish. We are fixing to have a baby.. and he still is acting like one..
2007-02-08 12:33:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You have a pic of a guy on your profile and you are a girl. Now you confused me. Can you change your pic to a girl if you are since you are pregnant? Thanks alot.
2007-02-08 12:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by ocean 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get rid of him...Men that accuse you of cheating all the time are jerks and don't deserve any of your time because they are probably the ones that are cheating. I was with a guy for 2 years that treated me like crap, now I have the most wonderful husband in the world and I am glad I got rid of the jerk!
2007-02-08 20:40:19 · answer #2 · answered by MyOpinionMatters 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear mother to be. I don't want to alarm you, but the more your boyfreind has doubts of your commitment the more he is asking the same of himself. I do not know either of your ages but the younger you are the more this issue seems to happen. Feel good , and at ease, for your trust. Ask the same for your estranged father/boyfreind. He's as scared as you are about the upcomming responsibilities.
He could be asking you for confirmation of your love and commitments, questioning his own, or both.
Time wil aswer it all. Good luck
Dennis
2007-02-08 20:52:27 · answer #3 · answered by deriggs55 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like my husband. lol. just dont let it upset you. it almost sounds like hes just trying to get a reaction. as my mother in law says "yes you could be cheating because your SO desirable right now" and she has a point! im 32 weeks pregnant and huge and my husband accused me last night of cheating. so just dont worry about it. it sounds like he is just trying to start something. some men (and even women) are just like that. dont stress. Good luck and God bless your pregnancy!
2007-02-09 02:05:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time its their guilty conscience! Im not trying to say that hes cheating on you. I'm just speaking from personal experience.
2007-02-08 20:38:04 · answer #5 · answered by ♥i WANNA KN0W♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe he is doing something. Maybe he is messing around with someone else and since you don't sense it, he feels guilty and insecure and accuses you to see if you might be doing the same.
2007-02-08 20:41:12 · answer #6 · answered by HunnyMommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably feeling guilty about something that he did. It is very normal for you not to be sexual at this point in th pregnancy. He is also very insecure.
2007-02-08 20:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is scared and may be trying to get out of the situation. This is a good indication that he and maybe you, are not ready to be parents...hey guys wise up, this is forever.
2007-02-08 20:38:18 · answer #8 · answered by Sheila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
USUALLY WHEN A GUY ACCUSES YOU OF CHEATING ITS BECAUSE OF HIS INSACURITY. MEANING THAT MAYBE YOU SHOULD CHECK UP ON HIM, I DONT WANT TO BE THE BEARER OF BAD NEWS, BUT HE ACCUSES YOU BECAUSE HE'S INSACURE BECAUSE HE'S THE ONE THATS MESSING UP.....THIS HAS HAPPENED TO ME BEFORE, THE RELATIONSHIP WAS FINE UNTIL HE STARTED ACCUSING ME OF BEING UNFAITHFULL, COME TO FIND OUT HE'S THE ONE THAT WAS MESSING AROUND BUT HE WOULD ACCUSE ME BECAUSE HE KNEW WHAT HE WAS DOING AND HE DIDNT WANT ME DOING IT TO HIM. I ALSO LEARNED THIS IN PSYCHOLOGY.
2007-02-08 20:42:41 · answer #9 · answered by claudia m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Puhleeze . . .if he's so worried about you cheating, chances are he is cheating. Seriously . . .this is typically the case. Especially when you are ready to deliver.
2007-02-08 21:20:59 · answer #10 · answered by Who Knew! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋