Some people talk ill of others without realizing their own mistakes, and more over they never try to look at the best side of the person who has done mistakes? Can't they adjust? or tell them softly not to do that mistake again?
2007-02-08 12:32:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Insecurity..Insecurity comes in all forms..may be inferior or superior..People tend to become insecure when someone new enters into their life and they know the other is better than him/her for sure. so make their ego satified by passing comments or criticise because of the fear that they will get dominated (though no one is trying to so do)..So if we pass comments or criticise, the other persons confidence is shattered because of which he may not perform well ..or something on similar lines..
And to praise, it is that u r making the other person much more stronger and confident ,which may still worsen ur situation..so people always highlight others mistakes and never ever talk about their goodness..
And in this froget about realising ur own mistakes..u take it like they r small and can be negligible..
so best part is when some one tries to high light our mistakes, we should take it like, we r superior than him in his thoughts..and stall cool..and try rectifying the mistakes shown..
it has 2 advantages..
1. u r consious of comments passed..and u try to not repeat them..ultimately attain perfection..
2. u know u have ruled him..that will boost ur self confidence..and make u achieve more success.
2007-02-08 20:50:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people has charactor of finding out the mistakes immediately and they can only highlight other's mistake.When our mistake been highlighted we can change our mistakes and we can make ourself gentleman.
The goodness would be highlighted by those who has the charactor of finding out the goodnesses.So we can not expect two good things from one pipe, because bitter also need to our body and glucose also we need to our body but we can not make them at one vessel and we should use two vessels for the two items.The same like the Almighty God has arranged one for finding out our mistakes and He has arranged one for hilight our goodness.
2007-02-09 04:05:02 · answer #2 · answered by christian d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, I have experienced to believe its a power thing for people to ***** about others it makes them feel better about themselves they feel smug and gloat at others misfortunes its a form of shallowness and power when really these people are responsible for making the same mistakes in they're own lives its power to rally a group and gossip than to stand tall alone and encourage or highlight someones positive traits.
2007-02-09 01:22:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they have some sort of relation or itimacy, nobody can judge strangers-thus if you do not like then try to live in this competitive world with your eyes closed ,ears shut&mouth sewn-this is the best way remedy of correcting your self rather than others which is troublesome.This is the best way of inviting happiness for you.
2007-02-08 21:55:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pointing Mistakes is to creat impression in you to prevent you to Point when the scolder committs any. Safe approach Trick.
Goodness will not be pointed out, highlighted because , you dominate on the other person.
2007-02-08 20:57:03 · answer #5 · answered by kumar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion finding faults in people is very easy but it takes a lot of courage to appreciate their goodness.
2007-02-08 22:33:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋