I had a bad breakup with my ex gf. I love her so much and care, but I don't feel like I had that in return. She found someone else, but recently cheated on her new gf with ME! She told me recently she just wants to be friends cuz she's trying to respect her gf, so I said fine..she said that b4, so I didn't really believe it, but now, we don't talk at all. I use to give her so much damn attention, but now, I don't bother not even with one text. I'm so tempted to contact her, and I'm strong enough not to call or text her, but when she texts me, I'm a bit weak! Yesterday she texts me telling me her mom had a stroke, and I said sorry, but left it at that...no more replies after that, I thought maybe it's cuz she wanted me to feel sorry for her. I've deleted her number, but it's obvious she hasn't gotten rid of my number. Am I only someone she'll come to at her own convenience? When is it that ex's come back? Why do they??? It's hard, cuz she KNOWS how much I love and care for her...
2007-02-08 12:00:48 · 3 answers · asked by Brekn'dwn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She cares about you for sure that's why she calls you and she knows you love her and that makes her feel safe.. Maybe the new one is not close to her like you were??
2007-02-08 12:26:18 · answer #1 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, DO not call her!!! Even if you don't mean it, you need to act like you have moved on and are happy with your life. As long as she thinks that your still so into her she will take you for granite. She will never come to miss you feeling that way, you need to give her something to miss so don't respond to her calls or her texts unless there is a change in her feelings and unless she is broken up with her partner now. Take her out of her comfort zone where your concerned, don't let her think that you will always be there, maybe even somehow make her think that your dating someone else that your happy with. Sometimes people don't realize what they had until they feel that they have lost it..Good Luck
2007-02-08 20:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u kno let her be for awhile u do ur thing she will realize she had sumthin good n felt bad about what she left alone u always have to give ppl second chances well not all people but some jus give her time
2007-02-08 20:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by kesha_9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋