All of a sudden. Me and My mom have just started arguing alot latley. I dont know why. ??? So have me and my little brother. Just everyone have been making me made in my house. Expecially my mom. Latley she has been all over me for not good engough grades are what. I have all a's and one b. We just dont get along anymore. What should I do?
2007-02-08 11:39:36 · 9 answers · asked by Tiff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Try doing more things with your friends , and clean up after your self at home.
2007-02-08 13:13:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, moms and brothers can be a pain, and sounds like your in your teenage years which doesn't help the situation at all. trust me i know! So what i have learned about this is that if you just let you mom say what she needs to say and i know this is hard but just say OK and maybe go chill in your room or somewhere so an argument doesn't start! OR maybe tell you mom how you feel... like that you don't want to fight like this or something she might understand and try and help. Worth a try!
best of luck! hope it gets better!
2007-02-08 19:47:15 · answer #2 · answered by pixiestix997 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That will happen.For some reason we take all are frustrations out on the people we love the most.But take a realistic look at the situation and see what you can do to change it.
Your Mom only wants the very best for you.So if she pushes you for doing better.It's because she wants great things for you.
Take it from someone who knows.She won't always be here so love the time you have with her.Be glad she loves you enough to want great things for you.Good Luck!!!
2007-02-08 20:21:55 · answer #3 · answered by gibbygirl38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been getting a lot of that lately too. what I think happens is parents are happy when their kids are constant and predictable, and as you grow up, it's only natural that we change, and parent don't like to see us change. so I would try to listen to what she says in the arguments, and before you try to yell back or defend yourself, consider what you would be thinking in her position. Try to consider what she is saying. If infact you are really getting a's and b's I would try to explain to my mom that you are happy with your grades. If your not lying about them, I think there is no reason for her to be upset with an a or b.
2007-02-08 19:47:55 · answer #4 · answered by Kathleen Comber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like YOU are the common denominator.
Your Mom should give you a swift kick in the @ss.
2007-02-08 19:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by nope n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im sorry to hear that. Im in my teen years and that is just a phase. If you havent been you should respect her. I know i get frusturated to with my parents and grandparents but i take a deep breath and close my eyes. maybe you are just stressed fom to much in your mind well i hoped i helped
2007-02-08 19:43:42 · answer #6 · answered by suffering from a ed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry- all of us teens have mom issues. try to talk about it with her but make sure u say it respectfully or shell be on ure case about that. good luck!
2007-02-08 19:43:09 · answer #7 · answered by PaRtYqUeEn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same here....Moms and parents in general are pains in the @SS but it could be worse your mom could justify your dad hitting you so hard that your ears were ringing...but Good Luck!
2007-02-08 20:05:26 · answer #8 · answered by XxXGiRLNeXtDooRXxX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the teenaged years! You'll get over it soon. Why don't sit down with your mom and have a nice mother daughter talk?
2007-02-08 19:43:59 · answer #9 · answered by KB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋