I allready know my prefrence and im sticking with it. But this isint about me. What do you have to say on this topic?
2007-02-08 11:29:03 · 23 answers · asked by kieran 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
a dictionary's really good but we're not talking about meridal, we're talking sex here.
i think it's neither nor bad. it's a preference but one shouldn't be judged on it. i think it's great to wait for marriage...if that's your thing cuz it's not mine, but i comend anybody with the self-will to do that.
2007-02-08 13:26:37 · answer #1 · answered by lalapalooza 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, its pre-marital sex, not pre-meridal.
Many people have sex before marriage. I personally believe that it is harmful and here is why: If youve already had sex, your wedding night wont be a fulfilling as it could be. Youve already done it before. Not that it isnt as good because it most likely will be. But there is something about reserving the "ultimate experience" for the wedding night. Im a guy and I wish I would have waited.
Many people have been convinced that you should "try before you buy" to make sure your partner can satisfy you. Thats absurd. If both of you have open lines of communication (which is an absolute must before marriage), both of you can tell each other what your likes and dislikes are. AND if you are both virgins, both of you will be discovering your own likes and dislikes as well as your partner.
My $.02
2007-02-08 19:36:28 · answer #2 · answered by Freak Boy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have a bf right now who has been through hell and back. He had a sex addiction, but got himself out of it. He says that it is totally worth it to wait. He and I are both waiting till marriage.
My opinion: There are so many things you could catch no matter what protection you use, and you never know if your partner will lie to you about that stuff. Why take the risk? I'm waiting. Also, it's more special and you feel more worth when you and your partner wait for each other. Sex is much more fulfilling.
2007-02-08 19:35:50 · answer #3 · answered by pantherpink25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What in the world is 'merid'? I can't answer about pre-meridal sex if I don't know that term!
I think you mean 'pre-marital'. My opinion is that it's neither inherently good nor bad; it depends on the people involved and their situation. I can imagine one couple who I would applaud having pre-marital sex, and another who I would deeply frown upon. It has to do with maturity, your reasons why, etc., etc..
But ultimately, I don't see why anyone shouldn't wait, and I think things are less complicated and generally happier when people who are planning on maintaining long-term relationships or getting married wait until a commitment before having sex.
2007-02-08 19:42:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always laugh at some "christians" who talk out of both sides of their face on this issue for LGBT people.
First they say we are all having sex outside of marriage, and are therefore "sinners." Then they turn around and campaign against same-sex marriage. You can't have it both ways, unless you are a hypocrite!!
In the US, LGBT people must have pre-marital sex (note spelling) by definition, so it can't be wrong. That's who you wanted to know about, asking this question in the LGBT section, right?
2007-02-08 19:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I presume you mean pre-marital. As long as the people involved are consenting, all sex is good. Do it with whomever you like, whenever you like within the constraints of public decency.
There are some wowser religions that don't like people having fun so they put limits on it. Ignore them and enjoy yourself.
2007-02-08 19:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by tentofield 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I had it, so it would be just stupid of me to say it's bad. And, anyway, isn't sex yet another tool to get closer in touch with some other person? I don't find anything wrong with that.
2007-02-08 19:33:42 · answer #7 · answered by Uros I 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well.. considering I, along with many other people, can't get married in California yet, I'd say premarital sex is ok :P. Just be safe.. use protection.
2007-02-08 20:02:37 · answer #8 · answered by robert 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know, I think that if you are going to have pre-martial sex than you should do all that you can to protect yourself, but I think that you should wait until you really get to know the person
2007-02-08 19:37:06 · answer #9 · answered by danicolegirl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong. Sex was created to be a beautiful union between man and wife, as God created man and woman to be together in marriage in His sight. Anything outside of that is sin. The Bible tells us to flee from ALL kinds of sexual immorality, and to keep the marriage bed pure.
2007-02-08 19:33:22 · answer #10 · answered by Redeemed 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋