what do you think? i need your opinion.?

Question

okay, i got AF on Nov. 11, Dec 10, Jan 7, so i figured i'd get it again oround Feb 7, but its Feb 8th and i don't have AF yet. i had some cramps like on and off on the 6th and 7th, and hardly any today. i've had a slight back ache since Friday, but im pretty sure thats from tennis. i've been running about a mile a day for the past 2 weeks, so i think that could've thrown it off some. i'm haveing no other symptoms of pregnancy, but i'm terrified because i haven't gotten my period yet. i'm 14, and i don't need your comments about how i'm too young to be having sex, i know this. and i'm not having sex anymore and i've already told my boyfriend and he's okay with it, for now. i've also already told him about my late period, and he just says we'll deal with it when we have to. i KNOW if i am i'm aborting. i just really need someone to talk to..

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Answer 1

Your thrown off because of the other activities, panic/stress & running / tennis of worry. Not certain if this was the first time. But that can throw your regularity off a little as well.

changes x 5 (panic, stress, tennis, running and 1st time(?) =

late period

Wait another week or 2 then go to the Planned Parenthood in your area.

Answer 2

I also agree that when you stress it throws your body off.....

BUT if you decide not to keep the baby then I suggest adoption. I am a biased opinion though because my husband and I are trying to adopt and understand the joy you would be giving someone. If you decide to keep the baby then the baby could bring so much joy to you! It really is up to you and what you think is best! You can't undo your decision later on, some pros though are the fact that if you place the baby and choose an open adoption you can see pictures and letters of your child as they grow and know you made a good decision (with abortion you can't do that).

Anyway, I would love to talk with you if you would like to place your child in an adoptive home. We are working with an agency and have a home study.


-Crystal (hoping to adopt a child of any race or gender)
http://ourjourneytoadoption.blogspot.com/

My friend Joanne is hoping to adopt too!
http://ouradoptionplan.com

Answer 3

It is a little early to be worried, but I would suggest taking a home pregnancy test just in case. You can buy one at wal-mart for less than $5--send your boyfriend to get it if you can't. Better yet, go to a nearby free clinic, get a pregnancy test and birth control (they will usually give the pill or condoms for free.) It is very dangerous for a girl your age to be pregnant or have an abortion.

Good luck!

Answer 4

I reckon get a pregnancy test from the chemist and find out one way or the other as not knowing is much worse than knowing. Get your boyfriend to buy the test if it is easier and then if you know whether or not you are pregnant you can deal with it.

Answer 5

Stressing will make it worse. If you stress your period could be delayed. ALSO.. the running could have something to do with it. I would say wait some more time and if you don't start then take a test. Good luck

Answer 6

You are a TROLL. Stop posting about your period and pregnancy. How is anyone here supposed to know if you knocked yourself up by careless unprotected sex. WE ARE NOT PSYCHICS.

Answer 7

Its normal to skip periods at 14. But, you seem worried, so see your doctor. Do your parents know? Well, if not, ya kinda need to tell them. Your mom knows you sometimes more than you think. You can talk to me anytime; here's my email. [e-mail]
feel free to email me anytime.

Answer 8

to me it sounds like your period is not regulated i would wait til the 11th or soo b4 you take a pregnancy test

Answer 9

i would wait until around the 15th before you worry, it is normal at your age for your period to start early at times and late at times