2007-02-08 10:47:04 · 10 answers · asked by Spence 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would say leave her be so you can both live your lives. It'll be stressful enough already, but you can definately show your support by sending letters, care packages, and everything she needs.Its hard already to stay together when everything is normal, so it makes it much more difficult when there is a major change such as this. I would say have one last great date, seal it with a kiss, (or good bye sex) and if its meant to be, everything will work out in the end. At least this way, neither one will resent the other for experiences they could have had. If your love is strong, than it'll survive this. If you love her, than you gotta let her go, it s the only way to find out if she'll come back. Then you'll know if its true love or not.
2007-02-08 11:17:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you love her from your heart yes you should stay while she's in the navy if you can't wait on her while she serves her country then you don't really love her and not much of a man and don't dump her if you care for your girlfriend are you engaged if not then do what you want too but tell her if you'll wait for her or date other's
2007-02-08 10:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should stay with her. By staying with her, you're showing support and that you are a dependable shoulder to lean on.
2007-02-08 10:51:06 · answer #3 · answered by beatlesfanatic123456 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should stay with her and remain totally faithful to her while she serves her military commitment. To do otherwise would be Un-American.
2007-02-08 11:45:33 · answer #4 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love her you would stay with her, if you two wed before she leaves, sometimes they will let spouses stay together.
2007-02-08 11:34:31 · answer #5 · answered by Exhibit A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how long you want to wait. Since she's not your wife, you don't count in terms of medical benefits, etc.
2007-02-08 10:50:57 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ask Molly.
2007-02-08 11:02:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you LOVE her, you will stay with her
2007-02-08 10:49:40 · answer #8 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK YOU HAVE BEEN CAUGHT - LOOK AT SOME OF THE MORE RECENT QUESTIONS!!!
SORRY
2007-02-08 11:13:00 · answer #9 · answered by litlbigdg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go, and ensure that she lets you go too. it is easier than wasting away with worry and hope.
2007-02-08 10:57:33 · answer #10 · answered by SAINT G 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋