he loves me i know he does but it's like i have feelings too and i dont want to get into a sexless marriage.
2007-02-08 10:27:26 · 7 answers · asked by love_bug_baby4626062000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Then don't marry him. He is who he is and he's not going to change. You either love him for who he is, or you go find a new guy who meets your requirements.
2007-02-08 10:30:24 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming that you are with your soon to be hubby and the two of you are not having sex.
I don't know how old you are or how long you have been together. Do you have children? All of these things may have an affect on his sex drive.
If he is older then you your sex drive my overpower his, the stress of children or job can damper any sexual mood, or if you have been together for a while then you may want to spice things up. However if he has been like this since you met then it may be a medical condition. As I am sure you know that make pills to help with this. Have you tried to talk to him about this? Good luck..but you really do not need to marry someone that can not make you happy even sexually.
2007-02-08 19:49:30 · answer #2 · answered by Maybe I am a smartass..so what 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are feeling this way now DO NOT GET MARRIED!!!! Things will not change. Change them now before or you will be in an unhappy marriage that wont last!
2007-02-08 18:43:10 · answer #3 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand your ground. Somebody who TRULY loves you is going to respect your opinion and remember just because you are "suppose to get married" doesnt mean you will. Things
happen all the time to people who are engaged.
Also, KNOW that it IS NOT going to get better once you get married........if anything it will get worse. People dont change when they get married....... girls always say "I love him and I know he loves me. It'll be different once we are married."
IT WONT!!! STAND YOUR GROUND or YOU WILL REGRET IT!!!
2007-02-08 18:32:50 · answer #4 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
respect him! Your going to get married!!! Its not all about the sex. Its about the person your marring. He obviously wants to wait until marrage to have sex/ make love. If you love him as much as you think you do respect his wishes to wait until after the nuptuals. It will mean so much more!
2007-02-08 18:32:53 · answer #5 · answered by Mindy A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't give much detail here. Where are we suppose to go with this?
2007-02-08 18:31:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not really sure what you're talking about. Can you provide more details please? Are you asking why you are your fiancee aren't being intimate more?
2007-02-08 18:30:48 · answer #7 · answered by Galoshes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋