I saw these really adorable kids(boy 12,girl 5)in Russia and I want to adopt them but now I'm divorcing my wife so I'm single .
should I get married first then adopt?...or..
btw I work as a dentist and I'm financially stable
2007-02-08 10:14:00 · 9 answers · asked by Jack 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's up to you hun, if you want to be a mother & father to the children then go ahead, if not, I'd wait till your married that way it wont be as stressful for you or the children. Good Luck
2007-02-08 10:39:32 · answer #1 · answered by tommi_ghurl_2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing some adorable kids is not enough to want to adopt them. Make sure you know that you will be RAISING these kids alone. No wife at home doing the "mom" thing. If you're ready to be the dad and the mom, go for it. Good Luck!
2007-02-08 10:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by You Don't Know Me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to have kids and feel you're ready for it, why not adopt now? Just keep in mind that this may potentially lower your desirability as a partner; a lot of people are looking for partners without "baggage".
2007-02-08 10:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't hurry love. And if you like those kids alot then adopt them but if you don't have alot of money wait until you can pay fo their school tax and everything. But mostly do what you're heart tells you to do.
2007-02-08 10:19:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Research Russian laws. I know couples who adopted and had a hard time...a single dad may make it impossible. Only you can know if you can give them a good life by yourself.
2007-02-08 10:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by The Steele's 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I THINK YOU SHOULD DO WHAT YOU CAN HANDLE AND WHAT IS TRULY IN YOUR HEART. I THINK THAT YOU WILL BE REWARDED FOR THAT. YOU MAY NOT SEE IT HERE ON EARTH BUT YOU WILL SEE IT IN ANOTHER PLACE. GOD BLESS YOU AND GOOD LUCK.
2007-02-08 10:42:31 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you WANT them? ask yourself that first... they're cute, but raising kids is HARD WORK
2007-02-08 10:17:34 · answer #7 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is TOTALLY up to u. I think that you should adopt them anyway, but it is your choice. If you really want to, then you should. Dont let any silly divorce keep you from wat u want!!
2007-02-08 10:15:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anna 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
or you could have mine!
2007-02-08 10:21:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋