I gave a guy my phone number last month and he turned out to be from India and Hindu. Which is just fine with me. But things started to go to fast and I told him I just wanted to be friends. Before this we would e-mail eachother almost every day. He said he was fine with being friends. But now he hardly e-mails me. Now we have only met in person once and that was when I gave him my phone number and he calls once in a blue moon. He only answers certain questions and e-mails that he chooses. But he has always done that. I thought maybe I hurt his feelings. but he says I didn't and that he is just busy. But most of the time when he writes me now it's to help him find a job. Whats going on can anyone explain. Did he ever really like me or was he just using me? His culture is so different and I try to understand. Maybe he is doing what's right in his society. Why doesn't he want to talk to me in person?
2007-02-08 10:09:31 · 5 answers · asked by sarah m 1 in Travel ➔ India ➔ Other - India
The fact that he is from India and Hindu being fine with you is the problem.. He was using you. Indians marry Indians..
2007-02-08 10:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by goo_garglin_libtard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oo my Jolly goodness Sarah, have you considered that this fine Indian gentleman may already have a girl he is married to back in Dubai? His reluctance to answer your questions are very disturbing and indicate that he has something to hide.
Perhaps because you refused his lusty advances he feels rejected and has sought out another that is perhaps more willing to be giving. Women in the Indian culture are not permitted to deny their men. So that may well be the reason he sees too much resistance and strength of personality in you and that is not what he can live with if he were to give any sort of commitment.
I would suggest just letting it go and seeking out someone else who is willing to let a relationship take its course or at best let it roll along at a pace suitable to you.
2007-02-08 10:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by Shelty K 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Indian men are like any other men...No man would only want to be friends...
2007-02-10 11:48:17 · answer #3 · answered by c687stu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mabey he is hurt or embaressed
2007-02-08 10:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you do not understand there launge. that is all. lol
2007-02-08 10:16:57 · answer #5 · answered by chicago cub's bat bunny 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋