A lot of people live in my house but the ones who really voice their oppinions are my mom and aunt. My mom has the most power as she is basically the head of the household. My Gf and I have been dating on and off for the past year and half since we are young and in colleges out of state. Everytime we take a break its because she decides she needs a break. I get upset each time, but then this time I decide to just let her go and giver her space. A week later she called me asking for me back and now we have been talking as we are away from college. My mom feels that I am old enough to do whatever I want, but my aunt thinks I should not be so "weak"? The fact is we both love each other. Should I give a damn about what my aunt thinks? I love my aunt and respect her but my choices affect me right? Why should she think that she can try to influence my life? You know? They say it hurts them to see me in pain and emotionally down. But shouldnt they understand Im old enough?
2007-02-08 10:06:00 · 4 answers · asked by Nustche 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My mom understands completely and supports me...but my aunt is trying to tell my mom that i am weak emotionally and thinks that I begged for her back when I didn't! I just played it cool and things worked out. I plan on going home to see my girl this weekend and my aunt does not want to pick me up since my parents wil be out of town. She also suggested that my mom not let me come home because Im only trying to see her. What should I do with my aunt?
2007-02-08 10:08:34 · update #1
My mom is all for it and says I decide what I want to do in life...My aunt is the problem. Its her oppinion but she wont take action and my mom said my aunt is not mad and that they have no problem with the girl.
2007-02-08 10:09:24 · update #2
dude you need to let her go find sum 1 else i dated a girl off and on for three years and was in the sasme situation u in now u know what i ended up with. a broken heart and a bunch of old memorys and regrets that i dont know what to do with dont kill ureself over it kid trust me let her go ii know its hard to do but ull save ureself a lot of hurt!!! and listen to ur aunt she knows what shes talkin about. but reguardless of what anybody says to you ur gonna do what u think is best like i did and ur gonna have to learn the hard way just like i did!!
2007-02-08 10:14:44 · answer #1 · answered by Travis M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buck up, leave her. I dont mean to sound insensitve, but you are young you may be missing out on somone that will really care for you and not just come around when she wants somthing. I think she is using you for somthing. You need to experiance college life with out her, find someone you can really love! Dont talk to her or give her any more chances hun.
2007-02-08 10:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they should understand that you are old enough to decide what you want... but these people love you and dont want you to be hurting so are trying to protect you too.... whenever she offers "advice" just say thankyou i will take that on board, then make your own decission based on what you feel and what you want.. dont be pressured into doing anything you dont want to do
good luck x
2007-02-08 10:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by merrpet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should keep your head up and not focus on any problems live life and be happy
2007-02-08 10:10:21 · answer #4 · answered by drightchristy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋