I'm 14 and he is 18 and he has already a girlfriend.My friends tell me that I should forget him, but I can't.When I try something makes me remember him.And I will see him next week and people say that I could express how much I love him ,but with descent ways and I don't know any ways (I mean without kissing,hugging or flirting).Everytime I become Butterflies in my stomache and can't talk to him at all.I become ugly.I love him so and I don't know what to do.I even have some other friends who know him and are jealous, that i know him,too. I don't want to loose him. Help ?!
2007-02-08 09:57:12 · 17 answers · asked by nourhan_elmougy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know it's a big difference in age, but his mind is like a 16year old guy and he doesn't have this one thing in his mind from a girl.
2007-02-08 10:32:20 · update #1
You don't have him. He has a girlfriend, right? You are young and it seems like a big thing right now, but find someone closer to your own age. Any kind of intimate affection with you, can get him in alot of trouble. Maybe in jail. You don't want that do you. He might be older... but if he cheats on her.. he will cheat on you.. just a thought. You will have to learn to push him out of your mind. Go find some other guys closer to your age and flirt with them.
2007-02-08 10:02:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are 14 years old. Worry about something that is a little more age appropriate.... There will be hundreds of boyfriends, and at 14, I'm afraid you don't even have a clue as to what "love" is. There are so many levels, and you have to have lived, gained wisdom and experience to get past the attraction part.
2007-02-16 14:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by Kbear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am having the same problem now and you know what I realized.I realized that it is best you just let life run its course.I like this guy named Shane and I loved him for years but never had the guts to ask him out.It was to late he already had a girlfriend and when he got a girlfriend was the exact time I got enough guts to ask him.I will just let life run its course and see what happens.One was you can express your feelings for him is just like make up excusues to talk to him and just sit down with him/talk to him.Don`t make the same mistake I did and start talking to him about crushing on guys and stuff.I did that and now everyone knows I like him evern him.People come up to me and say you know he has a girlfriend right and I just tell them to shut up.Let life run its course.
2007-02-15 21:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A similar thing happened to me except the guys gf was my best friend. anyway if you truly love him and see that hes happy youll leave it. I mean you do want him to be happy even if it means you suffer a little? Love is sacrifice sometimes .Its not going to be easy it took me 4 months to get over him. Good Luck!
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2007-02-08 18:09:45 · answer #4 · answered by XxXGiRLNeXtDooRXxX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the best friend you can be, but don't try to hard to get his attention, if you want to help him with something ask and maybe he could use you or he'll let you help.You'll get closer and soon he'll dump his girlfriend if he grows to love you.
2007-02-16 10:27:20 · answer #5 · answered by Zee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just talk with him has a friend. He has a girlfriend so you don't what be cause of their break up. Give it time your love don't go to
fast. Don't do anything stupid that will make you loose him has a friend.
2007-02-08 18:04:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anrea R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you might just be infatuated with him since ure so young....no offense. i remember going through that stage. but one day youll find out what real love is. just let him go for now and if it was meant to be then he'll be back. who knows you might meet someone else you could fall in love with and he'll be single. ure too young to be upset about some guy,
2007-02-08 18:02:34 · answer #7 · answered by ferrari76x 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
4 get them go n flirt with him all you want o n just a warning all 18 yr olds only have 1 thing on there mind gettin in ur ...
2007-02-08 18:17:06 · answer #8 · answered by hannah b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
since he already has a girlfriend, he's not yours to lose. teen age romances are hard, but you get through them, even though it feels like you're going to die. it's what is known as gaining life experience. i know that's no consolation for you now, but it will be later in your life.
2007-02-16 03:34:48 · answer #9 · answered by billyjoemikey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget him he already has a girlfriend. Would you want someone to try to take your boyfriend from you? Of course you wouldn't.
2007-02-16 00:07:18 · answer #10 · answered by andyt 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋