What should i do??

Question

im with this girl now and from my stand point she seems to be a little immature about certain things. I just dont know if i can take her seriously about when she says she loves me or when she tells me she wont cheat on me or anything that requires a serious answer what should i do ride it out a little longer or should i end it now??

Answer 1

Man, if you feel there is no trust and maturity...move on and find someone else who fits the bill

Answer 2

Communication, as others have said, is key. If you are serious about her, then you are obviously considering a long-time relationship that could lead to marriage. If she cannot be taken seriously, what's the point?

Being single is hard. Finding the right person is even more difficult. Discuss with her your concerns, if she doesn't seem to care. Move on.

Trust me, when you find "the one" this girl won't matter at all. Save your emotional energy for someone that desires, needs, and loves you.

Answer 3

Well for starters, what does she do for a living? Does she have a steady job? Does she have her own place? Does she keep a balanced check book? Pay her bills on time? Those are sure fire ways of telling whether or not somebody has their shyt together. Because if people can't maintain a steady job, have a place to live, have reliable transportation, pay their bills, and take care of themselves, then what makes you think they're going to be responsible and sensible when it comes to you and their relationship with you????

Answer 4

This of course, will be up to you. Maybe you can have a conversation with her and tell her exactly what you said here. But one thing, what makes you think this way about this girl. Is it something she has done? You know that just could be her personality, easy going. Think about it before you do something that you might regret later on. Good luck my friend.

Answer 5

ride it out what if shes telling the truth dont end it for nothing sit her down tell to tell her the truth be like "listen dont get get mad but i dont know if i can believe you when you say you love me so im asking right now and be serious couse i need to know i dont want to get my heart broke" you can twirk with it put it in your own words if you want to you can trust me im a girl i know these things

Answer 6

I thing that she is serious when she says that she loves you. Why is she going to make something like that a joke?You shod say you love her back jest to see how she is going to react, than you will know if she is having a serious relation ship or not.

Answer 7

If she's immature I don't think she will mature any time soon atleast. I think you know you want to dump her but feel sorry for her if you do. Just break it off with her because i don't think it's working out!

Answer 8

If you loved her you would automatically stick it out and see if she matures a little but since you are so willing to "end it now" she probably isn't the one for you.

Answer 9

Open communication is almost always a great place to start. If you have a talk with her about how you're feeling, her response my give you all the info you need to make a good decision!

Answer 10

alright, relationships are difficult and must be handled delicately. Maybe you're too uptight and you need too loosen up a little, or you need to sit down with her and disscus this because the secret to any successful relationship is communication.

Answer 11

well, marriage is all about making comromises. staying together is too. i suggest you find out if you really like this girl and then tell her that you need to talk. you can tell her to change the way she acts and in return, you can say you will become more tolerable. good luck! trust me. i know girls. i am one!