our marrage has not been the same ,he dosent under stand that we needed time to our selfs he want listen do you think i was tricked.
2007-02-08 09:51:37 · 15 answers · asked by Princesschild_Malinda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try marriage counselling....the counsellor will tell him that it's not a good idea.
2007-02-08 09:55:57 · answer #1 · answered by Raven 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have a private talk with him and tell him you wouldn't have married him had you known you would have an immediate roommate. I don't know if you were tricked because I don't know the circumstances, but either way, he should have okayed this situation with you before he moved her in. I would tell him he has thirty days to make other arrangements for his mom, and if he cannot, move out and let him decide who he prefers to live with.
Other questions: Is his mom ill, either acutely or terminally? Is there an end in sight or are you looking at many years with her in your home? If it is to be only temporary, then it is probably worth putting up with. If it is more permanent, I'd leave.
2007-02-08 09:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce him and go on with your life. I have 5 kids they are all 9 and under but I swear I would never do some of the things parents do to their children. They need to let their kids have time to have their life. This sucks for you I seriously would make him make a choice or you get out. Best of luck.
2007-02-08 09:58:16 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This might seem extreme but you have to listen.
Momma's boys *never*, EVER change. Never. EVER. Even when the old broad dies it won't be over. She will control your life from beyond the grave.
You were tricked. RUN FOR YOUR LIFE. NOW.
2007-02-08 10:53:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you think it is nice that he wants to help his mother but it's time he popped her t*t out of his mouth and became your husband. Tell him you need him in more ways than one and you aren't getting it with his mother living there. He's got to find somewhere she can stay or it will cost you your marriage.
2007-02-08 09:58:22 · answer #5 · answered by Karen A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh you poor girl. It must really suck big time. There is one thing, you are the head of your household when your husband is gone and what you say has to be the law.
Otherwise, you wanna borrow my Colt .45?
2007-02-08 09:58:51 · answer #6 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is she there and did he tell you he was going to do this before the wedding? he also sounds like a mamas boy and you need to tell him your feelings then talk to her as well and see if there are other family members who can take her in for awhile.. don't know all the details to help out more.. good luck god bless....
2007-02-08 10:02:31 · answer #7 · answered by tlcoufan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother in law shouldn't be living with you unless she isn't capable of living by herself due to health reasons...You need to tell him your true feelings and if he chooses momma over you , you need to get out
2007-02-08 09:55:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that if he had never discussed the possibility of his Mother moving in with you ...and she is capable of living on her own...then he has forgotten that he is married to YOU and not to Mom.
2007-02-08 09:55:17 · answer #9 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its bad for a marriage not to have personal time with your spouse.It could lead to disaster with out it.
2007-02-08 09:57:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋