He cant see the big picture why I dont want him back, last night he gave me this excuse that the reason why he end up having an affair was he was getting depressed,like duh!Depression made him drive 11/2 hours just to be with her sl--t..My son has to wait for him after he promised him that he will be back 3 hours prior the chargers game? And his excuse was the sermon in the church took a bit longer(3 hours?),our church is only 2 miles away.How lame can that be, he thought that Im so stupid that I can't put it together??
2007-02-08 09:43:02 · 6 answers · asked by islandgirl06 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
,If you already have made up your mind, who cares what he can and cannot see. And since he cannot see why, even though the reason behind your actions is very clear, ask yourself is he really worth it. What I would do in your shoes, is to loose his sorry a.., take everything that I can put my hands on, and continue living feeling glad that this issue came early rather then late, while I'm still able to have a great life. Good luck to you and your son.
2007-02-08 09:58:38 · answer #1 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depression is not a good enough reason for an affair.
if he was rational enough to realize he was depressed than he was rational enough to go to a therapist or get counseling.
there are a million "excuses" why to have an affair does anyone consider that "selfishness" should be listed #1?
i'm just sorry your son is bearing the brunt of your soon-to-be X (i hope) selfishness. he has only his own pleasure and satisfaction on his mind right now.
unfortunately, your son will remember this when he gets older.
(my husband can remember going on rides with his mom and "sam" . "Sam" would load up mom in the front with him and my husband and his sisters in the back and they would go for ice cream.) while dad was at work. back then he just thought it was great to ride in a convertible with the top down and go a city a way for ice cream. he didn't realize then that mom was a whore.
2007-02-08 09:59:11 · answer #2 · answered by angel1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to take guys longer to figure it out. I have been divorced for four years and he has been in and out of my daughters life. His current wife was in jail for a year and during that time he didn't have anything to do with my daughter. Always had an excuse worked to much, sick always had a reason. But he took care of his step daughter the whole time his wife was in jail. Now he wants to see my daughter and she could care less. Unfortunately men find out the hard way hopefully it's not late for you're son. I know it's hard I work 60 to 70 hrs a week to make ends meet, I am a mother and a father. Just hang in their and pray God will guide you he has me and my daughter.
2007-02-14 08:07:02 · answer #3 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear brokenhearted,
He was wrong for that I agree!!!!!! My advice to you is pray, and ask for guidance for the man upstairs. Do not allow your brokenheart to leak into the other parts of your life. Make your decisions based on prayer and ask God to mend your heart
2007-02-08 09:50:26 · answer #4 · answered by ELDER 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You clearly aren't stupid.... so maybe you need to reevaluate why you're with someone who is. It's time to move on honey. Remember what you're worth.....
2007-02-16 08:45:31 · answer #5 · answered by Natalie 5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't believe your cheating husband they make up excuses my husband cheated he denied it but i saw him
2007-02-13 08:39:04 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋