i have this girl friend who always seems to want to make me jealous or to be jealous if she talks to other guys. like wise if i talk to other girls while shopping or receive calls from others she gets jealous? why is this? and she is supposed to be in love with her boyfriend. whats the deal? is she a wacko? ps she used to be a stripper to make matters worse. let me know what you think...
2007-02-08 09:32:57 · 5 answers · asked by the doc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
XxX♥She wouldn't try to make you jealous if she didn't have feelings for you. She likes you as more than a friend, I'm assuming. No friend would get jealous with you being around other girls & no friend would try to make you jealous with boyfriends/girlfriends. She likes you for more than a friend & it all depends on whether you're willing to handle it that way. By that, I mean that you need to find out if that bothers you or not. She may even tell you- later on -that she has feelings for you. But, are you going to let that ruin the friendship? I would completely understand if you did let that happen, 'cuz the same thing happened to me a while back. My guy friend liked me & I couldn't take it. He kept asking me out & flirting with me & it made me uncomfortable. With that said, I just said no every time he asked me out & I brushed off the flirting. Not everyone can do that, though, depending on how strong the flirting is & if you've told them you only want friendship. Deal with it however you have to, but be supportive of it. It sucks when you see someone as a boyfriend/girlfriend & they only see you as a friend.♥XxX
2007-02-08 09:42:25 · answer #1 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's probably some underlying feelings there
p.s. I belive the added pasrt about her once being a stripper is totally unneccessary. People should not be judged like that.
If you're trying to imply that she's hot, then says she's really attractive.
Cause if you're just saying "by the way, she's a stripper" is rude.
jerk.
2007-02-08 17:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see what being a stripper has to do with this, but... If you two are spending time together, why are you always talking on the phone to other people?? That's rude!! Maybe you are reading too much into this...
2007-02-08 17:37:26 · answer #3 · answered by Its me!!! :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants you, no doubt, hands down! Stripper or not, women try to get a man's attention that they are attracted to, one way or another..I'm a woman, I know!
2007-02-08 17:38:39 · answer #4 · answered by Nina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stripper? duh
2007-02-08 17:41:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋