ok... there is a girl at my school and she is so mean to me and my boyfriend. she is like the ring leader, after she does something everyone else just follows. she call him names and talk about us right in front of us. she just gets us so mad. today she got him so mad that he said something to her(i dont know what) and she pushed him and he was about to hit her but good thing he didn;t the teacher walked in the door. she gets me so mad, sometimes i want to punch her right in the face in front of everyone( but i dont).
i could take her cause she is a stick. and if she tryed to punch me i would even feel it.i dont pay attention to her but it is like she get meaner by the day. and if you try to tell her to stop she wont.
if you could help me and would really appreciate it
thanks
2007-02-08 09:21:20 · 7 answers · asked by Nikki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell the principal...
2007-02-08 09:25:06 · answer #1 · answered by rebel5689 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worse thing you can do is let her know that you're angry. If it's gotten so far that there's physical retaliation, like hitting or pushing, or if she starts threatening you, then you probably should report it to a teacher, counselor or the principal...
One thing that really gets someone like this is, after she says something mean to you, just look her straight in her eyes for a few minutes and smile real big...don't say anything...then walk away. (She'll start wondering what's up) Even if she yells stuff while you're walking away, just keep walking. Then...if she does it again...calmly say, "You know...I've been told that when someone treats another, the way you treat me and my boyfriend, it's usually because they're jealous. I'm sorry for you....but it's ok...I also forgive you...I hope you can find a nicer way to make yourself happy." Then walk away. This will probably embarass her....especially since she doesn't really want others to think that she's jealous of you.
If you and your boyfriend are together when she does it, then you and your boyfriend look at each other, then at her, then at each other again, and start laughing, as you two walk away from her. She'll be furious!
If she still continues, just smile, shake your head and walk away..... or just laugh and tell her she's a really sad person, and walk away. Just don't do anything physical or mean back. (It will make you both look bad too....and you don't want that!)
2007-02-08 10:55:05 · answer #2 · answered by S. B. C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you do have alot of choices you can do. One is realizing she is nothing but a bully if you ignore her it pisses her off and eventually she will see that you really dont care or you can just go to the principles office and let the principle know how bad things have gotten out of hand and let them deal with her cause you may not be the only one she is doing this to and they are probably waiting for somebody else to tell on her so they can take action to but whatever you do dont try and fight her cause than you will get into alot of trouble for defending a bully.
2007-02-08 09:27:47 · answer #3 · answered by mommyandbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, here's the deal. What you need to do is find some dirt out about this chick. Then you need to elaborate a little bit on it and start a rumor or two....nothing too unbelievable, but just enough to get people talking. Then when an oportune moment presents its self you need to call her out infront of a guy she likes and bring up the rumor....everyone will laugh....
could work.
2007-02-08 09:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
XxX♥Don't hit her or gossip about her, 'cuz 2 wrongs don't make a right & she doesn't sound like she's worth it. You could be the bigger person & ignore her. If that's impossible, get a teacher. I know you probably think "telling" on someone in childish, but just tell the teacher she's harassing you & putting her hands on your boyfriend by shoving him. Oh, and your boyfriend should NOT put his hands on her. She is a girl & he could get in big trouble for doing that. Boys are not allowed to hit girls & he's just as bad as her or worse if he puts his hands on her.♥XxX
2007-02-08 10:23:45 · answer #5 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she makes comments make ones right back. Shes got no right to do that and if it goes to the principal then its he said/she said or in this case she said/she said. Anyway refrain from physical contact thats not going to help you. Hope you can deal with this girl...Good luck!
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2007-02-08 09:33:28 · answer #6 · answered by XxXGiRLNeXtDooRXxX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do the right thing so keep it up
2007-02-08 09:26:09 · answer #7 · answered by lene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋