Marriage trouble...i need help asap?

Question

i was on myspace and this girl message me saying to tell my husband to send those nude pict of me or not shes going to make my life a living hell, so i ask him about it and he say that he dont even know her, but when i went to her myspace she put him oh her top friends #2. Then she send me a nude pict of me, saying that he send it to her, so we got into a big fight and he still denied he dont even know her, then i found a message that she sent it to him saying "i didnt even know that ur wife didnt know about us, but baby i still love u so e-mail me if u still want this secret relationship".

Answer 1

I would think about things this way:

He knows you have proof of the relationship. He knows that you need to hear him admit the truth. He knows that he can still have a relationship with her if he so chooses to. He knows that if he continues to persue the relationship with her your marriage is in jeopardy. He knows all of this yet he still denied everything.

I find the fact that he sent her pics of you naked odd too. Why would he do this..was it to brag on you or to make you look bad. It is very odd that she would want pics of you though..


I would suggest this..give him one more chance to confess to everything because you are married. If still he does not confess then you must take your only other option..leave him. Noone deserves to be in a relationship where they are lied to and not respected.

Good luck!

Answer 2

Everyone gets one chance in life to do good and now
your husband should have his. Sit him down and give him
a serious talking too and tell him , since you are his wife,
that you will not tolerate his actions as it is ruining the
marriage and tell him to contact this other person and let
her know it's over and give him the chance to prove to you
that he is for you 100percent and if after awhile he does
not change then you need to think of maybe a seperation
so as to give your marriage one last chance to survive
and if that still does not work out then you as a woman
should know what you need to do next. Be strong, hang
in there but in the end if you do have to leave then go on
with your life as you deserve better. Good luck.

Answer 3

Man you have to get out more! play the Field get laid let him play his game, you can play too, just be safe and don't get caught.
Make it a game see if you can score more then him. Smile in his face while making love and remember your last lover. You'll notice that your contractions around his man hood will be so much stronger when you get off.
It is at this point that you will know that you are now sexually independent.
Nothing pleases a man more then a woman who can get off around his man hood, he will be so struck he will not know what came over you,he is now your slave!