How do you get a Scorpio to trust others?

Question

They are so secretive. It's really unhealthy to harbor all one's troubles and anxieties inside. It is especially cruel of Scorpios to attack others in the way that they do, using someone's existing insecurity to put them down. Why do they have to hurt others?

Yes. I am talking about a Scorpio that I know, not Scorpios in general. How do you breaK through to a Scorpio? Is it possible? Or does time have to tell?

Nope. Never stepped on a Scorpio. He just randomly attacks or attempts to at random times. It seems like there's something bothering him dêep down, but he won't ever say. It's kind of like "If I don't feel good, I don't want my sister to feel good either."

Scorpio, when are you going to stop hiding?

Answer 1

Trust is huge for a scorpio .... it takes a long time or an extremely kind and heartfelt gesture (they have a sixth sense for that kind of stuff so make sure its heartfelt). as for the attacks, its something that just something that alot of scorpios do, anyone with a strong scorpio presence bottles slights up intill they explode on sometimes someone in the wrong place at the wrong time. and boy when they attack they know exactly where to hit to knock someone down ....

Answer 2

I am a scorpio. Maybe this is just my experience, but here goes. People have been horribly cruel to me for most of my life. When I have been kind, people have taken advantage of me. I had to learn the hard way some survival tactics and in an effort not to become completely hard, a person has to earn my trust now. I give them a little trust, see if it's deserved, give a little more, observe some more. If your scorpio didn't trust you, you wouldn't be around. A scorpio only strikes in self defense usually. Ask yourself what you did to them to deserve the reaction you're getting because they are reactionary. Other than that, if you are catching the sharp end of their tail then you may be threatening something dear to them. Have you ever asked them what is bothering them???? The thing is if they are stinging you, they AREN'T being secretive. They are letting you know that you're stepping on them.

Answer 3

Its stronger than us... really it is *insert puppy face here* please forgive us :(

Ok seriously now. I am a Scorpio myself, and I love life and I love people (yes, I must have been dropped when I was a baby - or that viral infection I had when I was 3 weeks old might have had something to do with it) so I'm not a complete cynic like other scorpios.
However, I posess the same 'gift' as other scorpios, which is basically pinpointing someone's weak spot in an instant and being able to find just the right way to make anyone's defence crumble.

For some people, as I expect is in your case, it's insecurity. For others, it's their ego that gets blown to dust. And so on.

I'll let you in on something though; Scorpios are very insecure themselves - as are ALL water signs. Cancers hide in their shell and just don't come out, Scorpio's have a defence system preventing anyone to be able to see it by instantly attacking them, Pisces just basically let it out and play the victim.

So the reason why Scorpio's intentionally hurt people emotionally is not because they're mean, but because they want to protect their insecurity. They don't want anyone to know that, so facing them with it doesn't work. They have this idea they need to look indestructible, and usually they do look it, but trust me; they're NOT.

Scorpio's ARE very secretive, as you well know. But there's no apparent reason for it. I suffer the same thing, and even though I'm very talkative, and very open, no one knows a damn thing about me. I just don't realize that I only tell people what I want them to know, and just superficial things which are easy enough to share - it's only when someone reminds me that I'm being secretive AGAIN, that I realize I'm doing it again.
THAT bit really IS stronger than ourselves.

Hope that explanation helped a bit!

Answer 4

I am a scorpio myself. It is very hard to get scorpio's to trust others. It's just natural for them to want to keep their feelings inside. In addition, I don't believe that they "have" to hurt others. I could ask the same about leos. Maybe your sign and personality just doesn't go well with scorpios. And with a question like that , I'm not suprised you feel that way. If you want a scorpio to trust you, don't assume that they all have to hurt others, and give them time, lots of time.

Answer 5

I am a Scorpio, and although it is true that I do keep my emotions bottled up a lot of the time, I think its a pretty wild generalization for you to say that all Scorpios act cruelly toward others. It sounds like you are talking about one person it particular, why don't you take a look at his/her particular situation? Maybe they lashed out because keeping stuff inside finally got to be too much.

Answer 6

good luck miss scorpios are the most powerful sign in the zodiac thus fearing nothing but fear itself you can not break through a scorpio either it is a mission not worth trying....trust is built through a foundation and friendship you have had with this scorpio i am a scorpio born on halloween folks dark side fuels within me :)

Answer 7

i am a scorpio and i think that i don t trust people so easy!
even very close persons. that is a litle bad for me. but the good think is that when somebody makes me trust him/her we will be together for long, even in a frienship or in another reletionship.
you know, don t push scorpios...if you push them they will leave you. they want to be free!
they want spase and time!
if you want a scorpio to trust you, you must wait alot!
they don t say easy the things that they want from the others and they always are waiting the others to understund by their selfs, what scorpio want!
it s a bit creasy but scorpios asks for nothing but wants the others to care for him/her....
if a scorpio is interested for a person, sometimes say things and do the oposite!!!! not because they want to lie, but because they want to test if you take care of them, if you look at the way they act!
you must wait a lot. but if you will win , that would be 4ever!
don t hurt a scorpio! they never forget.......
they will not hurt you back , but you will lose them 4 ever....
i don t know if i help you...
anyway, every person is a special one!
don t let horoscopes lead your life!
became the leader of your one life!

Answer 8

they get hurt easily like most water signs.. but they are also the ones to watch out for.. they will turn on you in a minute.. and lie just as quick.. and you will always believe them..getting them to trust you is not easy.. if it dont happen it never will.. it is a connection with them.. but once they put all their trust and love into someone .. they are a different person all together.. the lies stops as dose everything else///but if it dont happen with in a certain time frame..less than a year.. walk away

Answer 9

I think it's an individual thing. I'm not, in the least, saying you're wrong about your abservations; I haven't seen it. People think I don't like being told what to do; don't take commands well. I prefer respectable asking for help or doing what one needs/wants. Yes, I'm artistic, but what the heck does that have to do with one's horoscopial sign of birth?
I get cruel emotional abuse and try to help those who suppress their inner frustration or saddness, but these people aren't Scorpians.
Isn't your feeling of Scorpians on the line of horoscopist? Those who prejude one based on one's sign?
I'm just curious, not insulting or judging. I hope you see my opinion as I do yours. I take it all in consideration and with stride.

Answer 10

hey..the password here is "time"..

u need lotttsa time to gain the trust of a Scorpio. i'm not talkin about days or weeks..itz about months, or maybe years
if u feel this particular person is worth the wait, then be patient. once he opens up, he's yours..!

that is until u break his trust..n then theres no turning point..

good luck!..(",)..!