Tuesday my friends died in a fire. All I do is cry all the time. I need help. What should I do???????
2007-02-08 09:01:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You have to cry in order to get over it. I know you're sick of it, but you must or else it will kill you inside. I lost a lot of friends in high school. Its like once you get over one death, another one would happen. The best advice that I could give you is to go and talk to somebody. If you don't feel comfortable talking to somebody close about it, then go and see a councelor. I know that if somebody told me to do that back then, I would have and it would have helped me cope through those tough times too. Just remember god does everything for a reason and he took them b/c they already made the impression that they were supposed to.
2007-02-08 09:06:17 · answer #1 · answered by Candi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont mean to compare your situation to my life experience, but my mother died suddenly. You are going to cry and hurt for a while, its a part of life. What would be good for you and your other friends who are missing them to is to get together and remember the times good times, tell story's, you will laugh and cry and maybe have some fun. It may sound horrible, but it works. Its what my cousins and I did to remember my mom. Just remember it is ok to cry, it makes you feel better and helps with the whole grieving process which wont be quick. Good luck and I hope all goes well.
2007-02-08 17:06:39 · answer #2 · answered by Lauren C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Maybe seeing a grief counseler will help.I have had many friends that died at very young ages and just going to their funerals helped alot with the way I delt with their deaths. And just remember that it's ok to cry. You are in my prayers. god bless you.
2007-02-08 17:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by Leo_Woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was it a suicide fire? Grieving is in stages and you have the right to cry, but don't let it take over your life. Your friends would want you to be happy and carry on with your life. It was meant for you to go on and accomplish things in life. Their lives were meant to end in that fire. Even though it is tragic, you have to go on and make them and yourself proud. Always remember them but you have to move on.
2007-02-08 17:09:13 · answer #4 · answered by Karen A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some counseling immediately.
2007-02-08 17:05:22 · answer #5 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear of your lose.
You will need to give it time.
You should talk to a consular
2007-02-08 17:05:35 · answer #6 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see a counselor. if your situation is real, it's too much for you to handle alone.
2007-02-08 17:04:25 · answer #7 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im so sorry.
i dont think you should do anything.
just work on putting it behind you.
2007-02-08 17:04:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i'm sorry
2007-02-08 17:06:47 · answer #9 · answered by amandareneemorgan_44047 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋