help!!!!! they had sex unprotected he's 28 she's 13 ..what should i do call the cops or what help us?

Question

she called me all happy talking about he loves me. i asked her how she knows he really loves her .she tells me "he had sex with me unprotected he wants me to be his forever" im scared for her she is so happy cause she might be pregent shes been vomiting for 2 weeks now.oh god she only 13 he is about to be 29 on march 8.there gathering money to move i know i should tell but i dont wanna lose her.also her mother is asking me if she ever had sex or if she just has the "flu" .im scared to death while she is so happy shouldent i be happy for her or should i tell someone or move out the way and let it be.im lieing to everone left & right cause me and her been friends since we were 5 .help me or should i say help her. shes to young to be a mother and to move out with him.this year hes gonna be 29 and she only gonna be 14 with a kid.......a kid with a kid ......they actally love eachother :(

Answer 1

Tell her parents NOW!!! You need to save your best friend. This is horrible, tell her parents and the police. She is probably pregnant!

I would like to cut this sicko's thing off!

Answer 2

You should absolutely, 100%, get the police involved. There is no way that a 28 year old man should be having sex with a 13 year old girl, unprotected or otherwise. He is manipulating that little girl into believing that she loves him in order to fulfill a sick sexual need. Being happy for her is not the question. This girl needs to be protected from a sexual preditor who is obviously not concerned about her well-being now or in the future if he is willing to risk pregnancy at her age. If you are afraid to go the police alone, find an adult that you can trust who will help support you and this girl emotionally. As hard as it will be, getting this predator away from her is the best you can do. Do her parents know whats going on???

Answer 3

well first he must know what he's getting into because it is staturtory rape but.......there is a but......if she lied about her age he can use that in defense, now yes i think you should tell about the sex part becuz she is too young but not the who part becuz if the parents wants to press charges then he could get in alot of trouble.......now the pregnacy part there is nothing you can do about that if she's pregnant it is too late and you wouldn't be much of a friend if you ask her to get an abortion, that's the last thing you want to do......but just let her know that ya'll all of ya'll (ex-cluding) need to sit down with her mother and let her know she's pregnant. She is too young and you must learn from her mistake as long as you don't go out and do the same thing you're okay but it is her life and she made the decision to be with this guy but my cuosin did the same thing and her baby is well tooken care of and yes it's the exact situation 13 and 28 now she's 14 he's 29

Answer 4

Wow you are in a tough situation. Your friend is definitely tooooo young to have a baby... truth of the matter is she is a baby herself and kids her age always think its about how cute a baby is, they forget the responsibilities it take. She may already be pregnant and thats a sad issue but to tell you the truth rather you say anything or not the TRUTH will come out one way or another especially if she is pregnant. So I will leave you with this....considering you have known her since you were 5 years old I can understand how you dont want to ruin such friendship. Maybe if you happen to know a close relative you can tell and let them be the one to talk with the mother then that would be my suggestion. I dont know if this is good advice. All I know is I understand your position and at the same time dont think its cool that the 28 year old male is having sex "protected or not" with a 13 year old child.. thats sad but that is whats happening in the world. Regardless if you say anything or not the truth will come out! Maybe talk with her about it, she may not listen but other than telling a close relative or sitting her mom down and having a private personal conversation try that way. Explain to her mom that you dont want to come in between your friendship and the mother daughter relationship but you are concern. Maybe she can come up with a way to talk with her daughter without having you involved. That way she can leave you out of it... well good luck hope this helps!

Answer 5

It may not seem like the best thing to do, but if you are really her friend, and you truly care about her you will tell her parents what is going on. You are right she is way too young to be a mother and if your friend thinks that the only way from this man to express his love for her is to have sex with her unprotected than your friend really needs someone to help her.
I don't think I need to tell you about how wrong their relationship. You seem to understand.
You have to tell her parents, and keep telling people until someone listens. Your friend will be mad at you, but wouldn't you rather that, than she run off this guy, have a kid, and probably end up in an abusive relationship. Which is what happens in most cases like this where the guy is way older then the girl.
The guy is looking for some one to control and woman his age won't let him so he goes after young teens who don't know better.

Answer 6

Wow what a tough situation for you!!! But you are not doing her any favors by letting this go. She is still a child herself and if she were to become or is pregnant it isn't fair to the child. She is not mature enough to be a mother. I was 17 when I got pregnant and I kept my baby and while I love my child it has been at times so hard. There is something wrong with a man who is almost thirty wanting to be with a fourteen year old girl, not to mention illegal. That is statutory rape. If you want to be a good friend tell her parents what is going on, this man doesn't love her, if he did then he wouldn't be trying to get her pregnant, and move her away from home. Good luck making a decision.

Answer 7

the lady who said, "there is something wrong with a man that wants to be with a girl that young." is right.

A 28-year-old dating a 17-year-old is a loser, almost certainly abusive. there might be room for debate.

A 28-year-old "dating" a 13-year-old is a pedophile. This is not a close judgement call.

Hes got an unhealthy need to have someone he can impress too easily, who trusts too easily, who he can easily dominate and control, not love in any real sense. If he truly loved her, he would leave her alone, or at least wait until she was older. he certainly wouldn't be making plans for her to leave her mother, school, etc.
Hes a liar on a fundamental level, to others and/or to himself. Hes incapable of a healthy relationship, without professional help.

Your friend is being deceived and used.

Because she's been deceived, she'll be mad at you in the short term but, if you do nothing, in the future she'll be miserable and mad that no one did anything to stop this before it was too late. And if there is a child, it will be a victim of child abuse, all its life.

The mother already suspects. tell her whats happening.

Answer 8

IF this is for real tell your mother.
Your mother will help you
You need your friend to tell her mother
An 28 year old sleeping with a 13 year old is rape.
She does not have to keep the child, she can consider adoption.
Please talk you your mom.
You are not talking about two 13 year old have sex. He is more than twice her age. It is not the same
Please trust your mom. Your friend maybe mad at you
You may not be her friend for a while, but you will help in the long run.
Good luck
God bless

Answer 9

This guy sounds like a complete loser and needs to be locked up.

A 28 year old man has no business being alone with a 13 year old girl.

Hopefully, your friend is not pregnant. She needs a good friend to talk to and let her know that this is not love and she has so many people in her life (including you) that care so much about her that she doesn't need men like that in her life.

Please tell your friend's mother what you know so that she may properly press charges on this Child Molester.

Answer 10

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Answer 11

Sweetie- there is something wrong with a man that wants to be with a girl that young. He's a child molestor. In order to save your friend from ruining her life you need to tell YOUR parents. Your parents can talk to her parents. This is a tough situation for you, but you are obviously a caring friend and I know you know enough to talk to an adult that can help. Think about it, you wouldn't be asking if you shoul tell, unless you really thought you should. You will do the right thing.