back and i find out about it is it stupid for me to be hurt and bothered by it.
2007-02-08 08:48:45 · 3 answers · asked by brynn_21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some people react diffrently to porn then others. Some women do not like it other women will watch it with their spouse. This is a personal choice by the individual. Noone can tell you that you are wrong for the way you feel. You may have your own reason like...wondering if he compares those women to you..or if he has to get turned on by them to be with you..these are just random so don't take offense to it plez.
Men proceive things diffrently then women do. Most straight men like looking at a women's bodies..why I am not sure but they do. He may not see where this is hurting you because in his eyes he is not cheating on you or doing anything at all wrong..because he is just looking. I am going to suggest two things for you to try..
First, you will not like this..but let him be. If he is not compulsively doing this and is not addictive then let him.
Second, talk to him about it. Tell him if he needs more visual stimulation then you will help him out with it. Let him know that is has to stop and you will support him in anyway he needs.
Good luck with everything!
2007-02-08 14:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by Maybe I am a smartass..so what 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 12:26:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him, honey Can I watch with you....that will do the tricks......lol
2007-02-10 18:23:10 · answer #3 · answered by DON 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋