back and i find out about it is it stupid for me to be hurt and bothered by it.
2007-02-08 08:46:54 · 2 answers · asked by brynn_21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Of course he does it behind your back! What do you expect? You told him you were upset and bothered by it, so he is trying to save your feelings! You have to accept that men are visual sexual creatures...they are going to look. What if he said he was upset and bothered when you eat food? Would you stop eating? Would you ask him to accept the fact that you are going to eat? Or do it behind his back?
It isnt a slight to you that he looks at porn. It doesnt mean he doesnt love you, just means he likes to look! Lighten up.
2007-02-09 03:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by an88mikewife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it that you're expecting of him? Do you expect him to unplug his normal sexual urges?
Kinsey showed long ago that males are easily stimulated visually. Can you really blame him for responding to that?
Put another way, if you had the best chocolate in the world, and it was somehow miraculously fat free and sugar free, would you be able to leave it alone?
2007-02-09 04:32:25 · answer #2 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋