ok heres the deal. i was going out with this guy. (*jonny) for about 4 days and i broke up with him bc my best freind (*stacie) liked him. i didnt want her to feel bad or like the third wheel.(i no im stupid). but 4 days later...she goes to his house. stuff happens and then they go out without telling me. but i find out and gosh it hurt me so bad. they are off and on for about 2 months. well for about 2 days he cheated on her with me. only kiss. thats it. no nothing else. i stoped it and life went on. this happend around september. ever since then hes been tryin to get me and her. we stopd being friends but now we started tlkn. *stacies mom wanted us to tell each other everything about *jonny bc ppl told me they were going out again.i told *stacie today about him cheatin on her with me and she flipped out and doesnt want to tlk to me and wants space. but she says she forgives me. should i just back off and let her have space? should i just take all the blame even tho she hurt me too.
2007-02-08 08:46:20 · 8 answers · asked by kole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
why do girls like that kind of boys? those d**kheads. i don't get it. and why would u kiss him anyway? u should've realized by that time that if he wanted u to kiss him and u KNEW that he was someone else's that time, then he's a boy that thinks more with his di*k than his brain or heart. if u get him someday, he'll just do the same thing with another girl anyway. try to find a boy with a good heart, not a boy with a brain full of lust. even if he might not as handsome, it's still better than having a boyfriend who cheats on you.
anyway.. i think u did the right thing. i believe that u have to tell her because she's your friend. at least, you've 'saved' your friend from a cheater (although in this case, too bad you're involved with the 'cheating' process'). you and your friend deserve a better boy. and hopefully when your friend realizes that you've 'saved' her, she'll call u and u gals can hang out again. don't break your relationship just because of a boy like him. such a waste. ask her to read all of this. might help
2007-02-08 09:05:09 · answer #1 · answered by javishdastick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live by the rule that all good friends should, you never go near a bloke that has been involved in any way with you mates. It's not healthy for your relationship, blokes come and go and there are plenty of them to go around without you having to share, as you have found out. Give you m8 space and make sure you agree that neither of you will let a bloke come between you. He obviously aint worth the hassle coz he cheated on her with you but then you werent being a good friend by doing that to her, she has every right to be p!ssed with you. Good luck xx
2007-02-08 08:55:03 · answer #2 · answered by Banny Grasher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?...Damn, if you think a kiss is cheating, then you really don't want to know what grown-ups get up to! Tell your friend it was a kiss. A lot of people kiss a sign of friendship. Tell her that if you had not found out he was a cheater, he might of done it with someone she didn't know! She would have hurt a lot more!
2007-02-08 08:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did she hurt you when you basically gave her the chance to date him? You were with him for four days so how could she hurt you. If anything you hurt her because you kissed the guy she was with. Its not like she went and stole him from you. He is a dumb boy who wants to be a player. You two should not let him ruin your friendship. Drop him and move on with your lives.
2007-02-08 08:54:26 · answer #4 · answered by Tim VP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why you even want to blame your self for that hold situation. She should be the one who feel bad for going with him. She broke ya'll up because she liked him if she was really your friend she should have put her feelings aside not yours. If she was really your friend and cared about you. Give her space but ya'll should not stop being friend because of a boy. Boys come and go and he is not worth breaking up a friendship if he went with ya'llat the same time and he know that ya'll are friends. its not worth it AT ALL!!!!!
2007-02-08 08:58:38 · answer #5 · answered by krazykia1p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its both your faults on this one
you did kiss your friends man which is a huge no no
and you shouldn't have dumped him for your friend that's another no no
and you are liking a jerk that cheats and recks relationships
and she dated a EX which is the biggest sin of all that is so a NO NO and she wont take the blame for any of it and she picked a guy over her friend ahhhh
OK so if you fess up to your part then she needs to fess up to her part and you need to date someone else dump this guy to the curb and get him out of both of your lives he is bad news
2007-02-08 08:56:20 · answer #6 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You told her the truth but i doubt you gave her all the details you typed here give her time. True friends aren't seperated by the small stuff
2007-02-08 09:00:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her on the phone and make up a plan for johnny so and so must die lol but just talk far away
2007-02-08 08:51:12 · answer #8 · answered by Sleepover Chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋