ok me and my brother got in a fight a couple nights ago because i lied to him about something and he told me to get off the computer so i did but i was mad and i went and slammed the door and he broke in and said not to do that because theres kids and he bent my hand back to make me fall and then he put his hands around my neck and was banging my head against the wall and then his wife took my phone away from me and i told her to give it back that i wanted to call and talk to my friend eddie and she told me that i didnt need any outside help.and last night they told me that they were kicking me out.
2007-02-08 08:26:31 · 15 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
me and my brother have never got along but this is the first time we have fought. and my mom lives in my brothers house to
2007-02-08 08:41:30 · update #1
I would leave and move in with another family member if possible
2007-02-08 08:40:09 · answer #1 · answered by sydb1967 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Banging your head against the wall? I'd tell him to try it again if he feels like spending some time in prison. Don't put up with any of this, and get out as soon as you possibly can. Don't be afraid to call the police if your brother or his wife ever frighten you again. I don't care if he's related to you, or if she's married to him - you owe them nothing.
*Edit* - If you're a female, then this is even worse. I've seen brothers fight brothers physically, and I've seen sisters fight sisters, but if your brother physically attacked you and is old enough that he's married, that is NOT acceptable.
2007-02-08 16:44:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you've described, it sounds like the time to go has long gone passed.
There is no excuse for what your brother did to you. That was out right physical abuse (legal term for it is "assault and battery").
Whereas it was not a good idea to lie to him, that NEVER justifies the kind of response he gave you.
As for his wife taking your phone away, and disallowing you to make a call, that is wrong as well.
I don't know what your options are for an alternative living situations, but I would certainly look for one and leave them to there dysfunctional selves.
2007-02-08 16:48:16 · answer #3 · answered by Thirddown8togo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes "Living Well is the best way to get revenge". What he did was not fair. Just show dignity and get on with your life--leave, but first I would swear out a complaint against your brother for assault.
2007-02-08 17:00:44 · answer #4 · answered by Terry Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... you lied about something--must have been a biggie. You disprespected your brother and the privilege of staying in his home. Had you been remorseful and apologetic, you might not be where you are right now. Yes, he was wrong to get physical with you, but I suspect there's a lot more you aren't telling us. Is this the first time you've fought with your brother or had problems getting along with him. Is there a reason you don't live with one of your parents? I hope you have someplace else to live and I hope you don't cop an attitude and that you learn something from the experience.
2007-02-08 16:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by Yo' Mama 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
OK, so what was the fight about, other than "something". It appears that you are telling only your side of the story, and, like relationships, fights are between two people. Start the story over again and tell us from your brothers perspective, then ask if it was fair.
2007-02-08 16:39:33 · answer #6 · answered by buddha bill 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not. Him banging your head against the wall is abuse...You need to get help and find somewhere else to stay because nobody deserves to be treated like that.
2007-02-08 16:33:05 · answer #7 · answered by coldasyou213 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow. What assholes. I dont think its really fair unless theres something you're not telling us... like what did u do to deserve all of that?
2007-02-08 16:29:46 · answer #8 · answered by michakitty87 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Walk away with dignity and support yourself.
2007-02-08 16:39:33 · answer #9 · answered by healing wings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are doing there just leave them find a differant life
2007-02-08 16:39:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋