12 and pregnant?

Question

I am 12 and i am pregnant!! what the heck should i do??!!!

Answer 1

You need to tell your parents what happened. They may be mad but once baby comes they will love the baby to death!

But if you decide not to keep the baby then I suggest adoption. I am a biased opinion though because my husband and I are trying to adopt and understand the joy you would be giving someone. If you decide to keep the baby then the baby could bring so much joy to you! It really is up to you and what you think is best! You can't undo your decision later on, some pros though are the fact that if you place the baby and choose an open adoption you can see pictures and letters of your child as they grow and know you made a good decision (with abortion you can't do that).

Anyway, I would love to talk with you if you would like to place your child in an adoptive home. We are working with an agency and have a home study.

Answer 2

I think you should sit your mom down and talk to her about it. I won't lie to you. She will me mad, but not because your a bad person, but because your pregnant so young. She will get over it however, and once that baby comes she will love him/her so much she won't know what to do with herself. I don't know how your dad will react but if he was anything like mine, he'll be fine once the baby is born.
You'll have a tougher time at school because you are so young, but I'm sure you'll be able to finish the school year at least.
I don't know what you can do about highschool because I don't know how your school system works, but I'm sure your parents will be there for support, you are their daughter and they will love you no matter what.

I was pregnant (not as young as you) but at 19. I was in the middle of college, and I came home for march break and I told my mom that I was pregnant. She freaked out and screamed and yelled and I cried. But about two days later she was still mad, but she was helping plan for my future. It took my dad a long time to get over it, but once I had the baby he wasn't mad anymore because how can you be mad at someone so small and innocent? Now, my son will be almost 2 this year, and my dad still calls just to hear his voice.

Answer 3

First, since you are only on the first level, I am dubious that this is real. Second, if this is real, you should tell your parents, though they are probably not interested or this wouldn't not have happened in the first place. You should, after that, do one of two things: abort or make plans for someone to adopt. There is no way you should keep this baby! You are obviously not nearly responsible enough of mature enough to be a mother! You aren't able to care for yourself let alone care for an infant who's life depends on you. Once this is resolved, you should STOP HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX!!!!!

Answer 4

Go immediately to a trusted adult and tell them! You need a lot of support and you need to find out what your rights are. Legally your pregnancy will raise a bunch of questions. Find somebody who is educated on teenage pregnancy and look into all of your options. Look in the phone book for a support group or call a counseling center and ask for some recommendations.

Answer 5

Quote From Intro "i am in love with this amazing boyy and his name is brandon tyler♥♥ he is my life! i revolve around him!!"

Well, your life is getting ready to change. Brandon will no longer be your life nor will you revolve around him. That my dear girl will now shift focus to your child.

I hope you have a strong adult support system in your life because you are going to need it.

I know you are freaking out. But, there have been many a child that raised a child. However, you are going to grow up very very fast.

When it comes to sex I wish young girls would think about the average life span even if you wait until 21 to have sex you can romp in the sack for 50+ years.

Answer 6

I agree, you need to tell your parents, yes they might be upset with you but in the long run they are a wealth of information and such. Then you and the father need to discuss if you are emotionally and physically able to take care of a child for the next 18 years. Also consider your schooling and what help that you will receive from family and friends.

Answer 7

12 and pregnant. I couldnt imagine. What are ya doing having sex at this age???? You are still practically a baby. I know thats exactly what your mother is going to say to you. I would seriously think about abortion. Or adoption. You are way to young to be looking after a baby. You are obviously not responsible enough to be lookin after a baby since you didnt use protection you silly girl. Definately think about abortion, I know its not really a nice thing to say, but you have school to finish and alot ahead of you. Good Luck.

Answer 8

12? Are u serious? Like the other girls said..Tell your parents. They are going to be pissed at you but who's parents wouldnt when your 12 right?

Answer 9

Why are you having sex at this age! Seriously are u stupid

Ok girl im sorry but ur in some deep S^&*( i mean ur 12 and you claim your in love. Girl you

THINK !!!

your in love. Let me tell you everything that is going to happen to you. After or during ur pregancy you and your boyfriend are going to start fighting over everything ( This is natural because he is stressed bout the situation) Next after the kid is born he will most likely leave you .. Trust me because i bet he is young and he wants to be with other girls especially when he is in his teen years.. I mean come on Hormones ... and guess wat you are going to stuck with the kid. BUT! YOU BETTER NOT ABORT THAT KID! He did not do anything to deserve that! it was ur stupid mistake and. NOW YOU DEAL WITH IT!
Sorry if im being hard on you but you just F^&*( up ur whole life.. Now you made it harder for yourself.
once again NO ABORTION!

Answer 10

That is entirely up to you, your family, the father, and his family....be completely honest with all parties involved. Sit down together and have an adult conversation...you may not have the cognitive abilities of an adult yet....but you made and adult decision...so do your best to think in terms of what is best for you and your baby....remember....even though he/she isn't born yet...he/she deserves a chance at life....the best chance possible....and you owe that to him/her. Good luck and god bless.