Can i possibly be gay?

Question

im a virgin....i never had a girlfriend....and im 32

Answer 1

Yu can only be gay if you define yourself by whom you have sex with.

Answer 2

We all should have a healthy attitude about someone who is gay, lesbian,
bi-sexual, etc. And not judge, or condemn, who and what we do not really understand.
I have cut & pasted an answer of mine to you, which I gave to someone who was confused, about his sexual identity. I don't care about receiving 10 points for this, just want to share it with you. This person had posted his question, in the Mental Health section, feeling he was weird, abnormal, for feeling a bit confused.
This was my reply (if you'd like to read this).
Thanks, and have a great weekend.
Love and Accept yourself, no matter what.
And try not to be angry, or bitter toward anyone who isn't like you, or toward anyone who negatively criticizes, judges, or condemn you, if you are gay or bisexual. 85% of the United States are some sort of religion, and condemn homosexuality & homosexuals.
But have a good self-image of yourself, and simply accept you, for who you are - whether you are gay or bisexual, etc or straight.
If you are gay or bisexual, or straight, realize you do not have a sickness or disease. You are Quite Normal. So simply do this - Love and accept yourself, for who you are ! !
I am a minority in this country as one who follows Mahayana Buddhism's Philosophy of Life, as well some of Taoism, & Jesus’ {on forgiving others, and not judging, criticizing or condemning others).
and am misunderstood, and negatively criticized, judged and condemned by many people, but I have discovered a practice, a philosophy of life, which brings me peace, happiness, and purpose for my life.
Just be yourself, without becoming bitter toward others. Your a great person, a very unique, special person, who most definitely has A LOT to offer humanity, and a certain special person in a committed relationship someday.

With Metta { much loving-kindness and friendship).

Answer 3

It's simple. If you are attracted to guys, you're gay or bi. If you've never had sex with a woman, you've just had bad luck or lack of trying or something. Doesn't make you gay just because you haven't gotten any.

Answer 4

i suspect you already know the answer to this question. why are you a virgin? maybe you're afraid of intimacy? maybe girls intimidate you? does not mean you're gay. Maybe you like guys? then you're gay... Life's short my friend.... get out there and figure it out!!! Tried some therapy?

Answer 5

Are you sexually attracted to men? What do you look for in a women or man? Do you masterbate? Want to talk more.... send me an email. Really you did not provide enought information to your question....

Answer 6

well ,are you attracted to men?
Ask yourself what turns you on.
Do you feel confident in realtionships?
Are you comfortable in intimate situations?
How would you feel if you decided you were gay?
How would your family react?
I hope you can find an identity you feel comfortable with.
i speak from experience when I say it took me a long time!
Look after yourself.

Answer 7

It's possible......
Close ur eyes and imagine a woman........
Can u imagine kissing her...
Does that turn you on?
Now imagine a man........
Imagine kissing him..
Does that turn you on?
Does that help.......

Answer 8

LOL, its 40 year old virgin.... ha-ha-ha

And Do you like boys or girls. we cannot answer that for you, thats something you must answer on your own!

Answer 9

just rent the 30 Year Old Virgin and see if that helps.

Also, who makes your heart pitter-pat? Guys or Girls?

If neither, you might be asexual.

Answer 10

Dude...do you feel attracted mentally, physically and "sexually" to men?