Will anyone help me? i have cancer, need to talk with someone. i really feel there's nothing worth living for.

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Ok above, plz help me

Thanx hey guys. Just i found out today i'm 1 stage away from it spreading to other parts of my body, and my lump is being delayed from being removed.

Milky im at stage 2, it's progressing badly. The medical aid is taking long in approving, and im 1 stage away from it spreading.

Answer 1

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Answer 2

Got a few issues going on here, girl. First remember Lot's wife turned into a pillar of salt when she looked back. So instead of blaming the past for the here and now u need to recognize that u make ur own choices now. There is always someone who had it worse than u did. Negative thoughts come from negative beings - which means that God does not want u feeling like this. God does not make mistakes. Do u read? Go to the library and pick up a few books about people like the Boy called it, which is a horrible story of abuse suffered by a boy at the hands of his mother. But the story, like Corrie Ten Boom's has a good end, and he is sharing it with other readers and speaks at meetings to help others deal with painful pasts. A couple of thoughts too. Did you now that if u suffer from Sleep Apnea it can cause u to feel depressed? Many people are not aware that they suffer from it. I was one of those unaware, and my own mother probably had it because she died from heart disease. NEWSTART: all of these factors play into your mindset: good Nutritiion, regular Exercise, drinking Water, getting outside in the Sunshine, having Temperance in all things, breathing - doing deep breaths of fresh Air, sleeping well to get adequate Rest to restore the body functions, and Trusting God to see u through all things. U can google NEWSTART for more info. Dr. Neal Nedley has written a book on dealing with depression, ways to help people who suffer from Depression. No life is worthless. Get out and volunteer somewhere. U will feel needed because u are. Check with local charities if u don't know where to volunteer. I have been doing that a long time now and it is very uplifting.

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Sweety its just cancer its not the end of the world people deal with finding out they have cancer every single day. I understand that after going through all the treatment and looking in the mirror and seeing no hair and a pale face and you feel like your body is just all messed up that you yourself dont want to live if you have to deal with this but if its treated properly you will have a better outcome so try and live for tomorrows outcome of all the bad stuff and bad things that happend today. The good news about cancer is at least there is a cure if you make it through all the medicines you will have survived cancer unlike alot of the deadly stuff out there cancer isnt that bad to face depending on what kind you have. You are more than welcomed to send me an e-mail.
I hope things work out for you

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You have to help yourself. Get it in your head that you will live through this. Keep an upbeat attitude. Stage one, you're lucky. You didn't say where the lump is. Listen to your doctors, and prepare yourself, mind and body, for some work. Best I can do knowing so little. Now snap out of your pity party and find some positive people in the real world to talk to.

Signed,

A survivor

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OMG of course there are things to live for!!! When was the last time you invented the hover craft or climbed Mt. Everest or became the first trillionaire or wrote a book or won the Nobel Peace Prize or made a car that runs on water?
And what about your family? They love you and they don't want you to die! I don't want you to die!

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there is a reason to live God if you have faith you win the eternal life. ex. when you in a elevator and you go all the way down the only way you can go is up. so i will pray for you. and hope you get better. i know how it feel to have a close friend have cancer. just take care. there is a reason for everything just pray and trust in god

Answer 7

sorry to hear you have cancer. I had cancer but had it surgically removed. Im suppose to go to my dr. every 4yrs. for a check up, but I dont. I just keep living my life and going on. thats what you have to do......keep going on, even when you get in a depressed mood. fight it, and do something that will take the bad off your mind and put good in. my cousin had cancer, but it was throughout her entire brain. wheres yours at?
do you have a hobby? if not, maybe you should get one. maybe that will help too.
♥

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Go to yahoo groups and search for support groups - there is a lot to live for. Back in 1981 - a dear friend of mine was given months to live due to her cancer. She's still alive - and living her life. Have faith - we are given trials in this life - don't give up - life is worth fighting for.

Answer 9

Live for your loved ones!! Cheer up, I know it's hard but just try to make the best out of it. Don't loose time being sad, instead be with the ones you love. They should be able to help you more :D.

P.S. Hope you feel better soon!!

Answer 10

Please don't feel that it's all over. You can get help and you CAN get better. I have a true testimonial that you need to hear about the Cancer Treatment Centers of America....Please call them immediately, they can get you help and they not only focus on your physical side, but your mentality as well....Call 1-800-487-3526

Answer 11

Try to live!!!! I'v lost for friends in a fire on Teusday already!!! All your friends and family will be sad!!! I want you to know this. You will won't to see what will happen. You could be a suriver!!!