Is marriage very much required?!. who is happy in this world - Married or SINGLE ?!!?

Answer 1

I think happiness has to come first within yourself. You can't rely on someone else to be happy. Happiness is not defined by married or not. Happiness is more profound and wide. You could be all alone, without anyone around you but stay happy inside your soul as long as you know what is the missing part in your soul.
Many unmarried people out there remain happy ever after in all their life without any serious problems at all. At the same time, you and me do know that there are so many married couple out there that are not happy with their marriage at all. Instead of being happy within a marriage institution, for them marriage is like a curse. So?

Answer 2

Marriage is never a requirement, in the end no matter how it's viewed we only do what is to each his or her own. Even if we are controlled it's because we've allowed it and because in some sense wanted to. Any marriage that is seen going into or during as a requirement for any reason, is only a marriage by name.
It only means something when it's viewed by both individuals as more than a piece of paper, a right time to settle down by whomever's view, or a fear of being alone. Nobody should look at a marriage as a means to becoming happy, because you can be with the person that is right for you and still be unhappy for various reasons, like whom you are yourself, financial, depression, etc. and marriage can't fix it. None of us are constantly happy, sad but true. If you find the right person for you marriage isn't a justifacation for anything or a means to being together always, and you will both feel the same about it, but if you do find that person, the view may change about it being just paper for that simple fact. If it doesn't and you both share the same feelings and views, can be together always reguardless, no, it doesn't really need to be the road you choose, but it couldn't hurt either way if you are right for one another. So you must decide how much you can trust yourself as far as your judge of character, and yourself as an individual if you can, it's great, but if you feel like this, you haven't met that person yet, or your current relationship reguardless of whom or why hasn't reached a level of that great a comittment just yet.

Answer 3

One of the saddest things to see is a married couple that has no real hope of being happy together...they're too different, and yet they stay together out of apathy, commitment, keeping up appearances, whatever. But maybe they don't even know that they hold the keys to their happiness by leaving the marriage after sincere attempts to repair it. I don't know...I just think some people are wasting themselves and a chance at a truer love or profound connection with someone else in the world. It may or may not happen, but how will they ever know unless they try ? I think it's better to be out there trying to find the right person and maybe you'll eventually end up alone in the end, but at least you're not settling for anything less than everything...that's a line from the new Sugarland song "I'm Not Settling", and it's a great inspiration to me.

Answer 4

Is marriage very much required?!. who is happy in this world - Married or SINGLE ?!!?

1) Marriage is very much required
observe the nature,other plants and animals ,how they reproduce happily and live or how they reproduce and live happily. SIMPLY FOLLOW THE NATURE .Nobody need to teach about this to anyone.
2) 99% of married people are living happily 24 hours in the day and night ,but sometimes they quarrel,but among couples one is living for the welfare and happiness of the other.

MARRIED PEOPLE ,WITH LOT OF RELATIVES AND FRIENDS ARE MORE HAPPY THAN THE UNMARRIED OR SINGLE, ESPECIALLY AT OLD AGE ,WE GET THE MUCH NEEDED SUPPORT IN EXCHANGE FROM ONE ANOTHER.

3) MARRIED OR SINGLE IS AN ISSUE CLOSED THOUSANDS OF YEARS AGO AND PLEASE DO NOT REOPEN IT AND QUESTION THE SWEETNESS OF HONEY.
YES. TAKING HONEY FROM THE HONEY COMB IS TOUGH BUT THE SWEETNESS OF HONEY CAN NOT BE DEBATED.

MARRIAGE IS THE ONLY EVENT WHICH BRINGS HUSBAND AND WIFE(STAND AS PROOF TO EQUALITY BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN) ON AN EQUAL FOOTING , PLATFORM ETC AND NOTHING ELSE WILL DO 100% JUSTICE TO THE SOCIALISM OF’ GIVE AND TAKE’ ; ‘FORGIVE AND FORGET’ ; ‘ LOVE AND LIVE’ ; ‘DIE FOR THE OTHER’; WORK FOR THE LIVE’ ; ‘SACRIFICE BODY ,WEALTH.AND LIFE FOR THE OTHER PARTNER’ ETC.

NO MORE DISCUSSION ,QUERY,AND ARGUMENT PLEASE.

Answer 5

It depends... for example, if someone is married and find it hard to live with his/her partner, then marriage is bad. But if the couple lives in harmony, then they would be happy. Singles that desperate to have a bf or gf are unhappy because they are constantly go after something that they like to have, not something that they have. This create disappointments and eventually unhappiness.

Answer 6

Animals do not marry but to get the most required lust to be satisfied mates with any animals, but God has created animals as per that cycle. But You being Human you can not live with out lust and as per the above Quent you will land your self in great Misery. Hence marriage is necessary which ultimately bring happiness. Good luck for you.

Answer 7

obviously the married.
of course you must try to make your marriage successful.
unsuccessfuls are always unhappy in every spheres of life.
there are millions of unsuccessful singles and thus unhappy singles more than unhappy marrieds,
and nothing happens by itself.
to make anything successful, you have to put a conscious and ardent effort and try your best for it.
all your thoughts of happiness due to remaining a single are illusions that will vanish with the passing of time
you will definitely regret it later.(sometime this happens with the marrieds also but that is after reaping the goodness of it.).
so get married.
"agar pastana hai to kha kar hi pastaenge".

Answer 8

Animals have a life cycle, and part of that cycle is regeneration of your kind. We all have heard about a biological clock--our body is triggering our mind to focus on finding a stable mate for reproduction!

Since humans are the only animals with the ability to reason, simply finding a stable mate for reproduction just doesn't cut it anymore. We all have feelings of jealousy and ownership, in addition to our biological needs. Well, this complicates matters--since we all don't naturally know how to handle ourselves and perform as the perfect mate to someone else.

Marriage isn't for everyone. Why? Either they can't seem to selflessly adjust to a partner, or they've had their fill of bad relationships and aren't taking any more chances.

Single life isn't for everyone. Why? Either they aren't comfortable living life without a partner, or their biological clock is urging them to stop playing the field and settle down.

This is a subjective question. Individual results may vary, ya know?

Answer 9

Everyone seeks happiness but avoids suffering. We want more of the first and none of the second, but can't control the apportioning.
If your needs are met, you will be happy whether married or single.

Answer 10

it depends on your adjustments,to have a married life you need to be verry adjusting.i think marriage is verry important your life is not complete with out a marriage imagine what would we all live like if we do not have parents,we all need parents so we all need marriage,but if you are really hot tampered or have some psychological disorder you can think of staying un married,but you still can not stay with out a partner.and happnies has no realation to marriege,but still married people are more relaxed because they share problems with the partner.