I'm not trying to be mean here, but if we think this out logically it seems to me that if the woman has the baby then she should have to take care of it. Plus, let's be honest here, women have the baby capabililties built into them which men do not have. For one they have the maternal instinct Two they have breasts for feeding them. Three, they can hear higher frequencies than men can (baby screams). Four, they have hips for carrying the babies on. Men have none of these qualities and they didn't deliver the baby so why should they be expected to change diapers? Also, don't you think that when a woman expects a man to bottle feed the baby, that she is just being lazy trying to get out of breastfeeding like a good mother would? To me its kind of like pawning off your job to someone else.
2007-02-08 08:10:52 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I don't think anyone will marry you if they hear about this!
2007-02-08 08:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by Gone fishin' 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe what I'm reading . How chauvinistic. What is wrong with sharing the responsibilities. A woman needs help in rearing a child and the man is supposed to be her partner, not someone that is going to desert her when the going gets tough. I feel sorry for your future wife. You should be there in support of both of them, through good and bad. Are you going to just enjoy the good times and let her do the hard yards?
2007-02-08 16:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by samootch 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I disagree:
1. Men also do a really good job raising the kids. (my dad was better than my mom)
2. You're right that's why a mother's for.
3. WRONG. Besides even if it was true, babies are loud screamer so anyone could hear them. You can even buy those baby walkie-talkie things (whatever they're called) so you can hear them wherever you are.
4. Even women can't carry the baby on their hips. You carry the baby in your arms. Or you can buy those things to have your baby on your back.
2007-02-08 16:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
This is one of the most sexist questions that I have ever seen here. It takes 2 to make a baby so the responsibility should be shared. Men like you are the reason for what ails the modern fail.
2007-02-08 16:20:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
you are an a ss. I feel sorry for whatever woman married you and any children you may have.
There is nothing wrong with bottle feeding the baby breast milk. That gives you a chance to bond with the baby and gives mom's nipples a break.
2007-02-08 16:16:06 · answer #5 · answered by *Just Married* 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Women do not get pregnant by themselves.Can men go without sex?There are so many women out there who are force bear children of men who raped them and sometimes by incest.Men these days are proving themselves to be somewhat of a disappointment and single mothers must step up to play both roles, which is no easy task and we are proving ourselves to be the stronger sex.If men do not want children, then they should stop trying to get into women,s pant.
2007-02-08 16:27:10 · answer #6 · answered by irene i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i raise my daughter i am her father, her mother married money, they have millions, i work 3 jobs to take care of us, she is 12 now and has lived with me for 11 of those years, i scrape by, i asked her mother to help me pay for braces and she told me no, she didnt have any extra, im struggling to try and scrape up enough to even make payments, my little girl deseres to hae them, the judge didnt think that her mom had to pay support either, i work 3 jobs and make under 30 thousand a year, we have a modest home, a clean one, her mom has 2 houses, and 5 cars homes are worth over a million dollars, ive been to court 6 times trying for help, i gave up,and it isnt fair, it makes me sick, and when i hear about women bashing on men, they need to recognize the real men like me and not group us all together!!!!
2007-02-08 16:26:47 · answer #7 · answered by waterboy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT bring a child into the world with that attitude. You should love the child and WANT to be a part of his/her life as much as possible.
My husband & I enjoyed raising our children together. They are now 17 & 11 and are very close to their dad.
Bottle feeding is not a JOB. It's a very good way to be close to a wonderful little person.
I feel very sorry for YOUR child. It sounds like you are very young. You just want to go outside & play, don't you. Please grow up for YOUR child's sake.
2007-02-08 16:20:59 · answer #8 · answered by Dovey3 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Having a baby is a two persons work: woman carry the baby and give birth( and trust that IS PLENTY WORK ENOUGH right moms!!!) and man pay for it before and after
2007-02-08 16:15:07 · answer #9 · answered by sasavert 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
The Woman and the Stork
2007-02-09 11:02:49 · answer #10 · answered by Puddin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd just like to take the opportunity to point out that this guy does not represent all men, or even any large percentage of men.
2007-02-08 16:18:03 · answer #11 · answered by stickymongoose 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋