2007-02-08 07:56:56 · 23 answers · asked by Kathy C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Since love is a verb, something you do, and part of expressing love in a marriage is keeping your promise to love only him in that way and forsaking all others, I say no.
You may get all sorts of wonderful feelings when you are with each of them, but those feelings are NOT love.
2007-02-08 08:09:36 · answer #1 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is tricky, especially in western culture. Heather may have hit the nail on the head. To be in love is to exclude all other people in the same group. Not everyone can do that. The culture has some very strong reasons for pushing exclusive love that we touch everyday. Stability of the family, personal health issues, and the like contribute to the stability of our group. That doesn't mean you can't love more than one person at the same time. The trick is, finding two people who are willing to accept a nonexclusive arrangement with you!
2007-02-08 16:07:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no cap on love. That's like asking is it possible to love my mom, dad, brother and sister at the same time.
Humans are creatures that base their livelyhood on feelings and love. I have loved 2 men at the same time and still do. This doesnt mean that we have to be together, but the love is and will always be there...
Love is love... share as much of it as you can. Just don't abuse it!
2007-02-08 16:19:16 · answer #3 · answered by 100% Woman, yes indeed! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anything is possible...but i would say if you have to question it then you may love two men at the same time, but not be IN love. We are human, we have lots of love to go around.
2007-02-08 16:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by Heather0925 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but it is all possible to be in lust with 2 men at the same time
2007-02-09 07:02:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it is...
I wonder what the record is for most men loved at the same time.
2007-02-08 16:06:32 · answer #6 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is happening to me 2 lovers and I aint ashame 2 lovers and I love them both the same one is nice the other is not just like that song
2007-02-08 16:00:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't be for me. I don't see how you could say that you love a man, yet be unfaithful to him on any level. Love should mean commitment and caring about the other person. If you love him, there should be no room or time or temptation to fall in love with another.
2007-02-08 16:00:30 · answer #8 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly. you may be in love with one and have a mutual love with the other. after you are with someone for a long time you begin to get a love for them because of comfot, then there is being in love where you are crazy about the guy and it is fresh and new. eveery so often you will come across people who are in true love, they have it all.
2007-02-08 16:02:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You love different people for different reasons. You can't control how your heart feels, but you do have the power to make good responsible decisions. Remember you're not supposed to hurt the one's you love, so if you have to make a choice, think long and hard and choose wisely.
Best Wishes
2007-02-08 16:02:18 · answer #10 · answered by Nichole D 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋