My roommate lost one of her best friends a month ago and she is very upset, crying at random times of the day, etc. I really want to cheer her up and help her out. I don't know what to say to help.
2007-02-08 07:42:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hha everyones else's answers wouldn't work for me.
heres what you can do okay?
the best thing you can do for her is whenever she cries just go to her and hold her,and do so tightly. ask her to talk to you about it, say something like 'i know it hurts honey, just remember that shes always gona be in your heart. if you need me for anything im here okay?' & make sure you go through with it. schedule a day out at the park. or a movie, rent movies even get take out ,etc and make sure you buy ice cream vegan friendly =)
she should feel better in no time. i mean the pains always gona be there,but in time shell find ways to cope with it. g'luck.
2007-02-08 09:10:29 · answer #1 · answered by gia m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't really cheer her up. You can however be there for her when she need you. If she starts crying , just put your arms around her and tell her how sorry you are that she's hurting and that you know how much she must miss her friend. Just let her know it's ok to be sad. That's what she needs right now. After a few min. you will see her cheer up on her own.
2007-02-08 07:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by forevereverizmine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its very upset, loosing people whom we love, but that's life my dear, we are like some people in a train, every one has to leave when his station comes. If it is by our hands we wouldn't let our lovers passing away. Anyhow life will continue if we share or not, so its better to go along with it, leaving our sorrow behind, hopping always that dear people whom passed away are now in better places than we are.
2007-02-08 07:57:52 · answer #3 · answered by Sherif S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've often saw how words, never do any good Your Roomate, may never really hear you. I'm a Hugger! I hug, for most any Thankful situation. You're Friend needs all of the Hugs, she can get. Give her one, for all of Your Friends, on Yahoo Answers. We're thinking about her. Thanks for being there, for her. Remember to Pay it Forward!
2007-02-08 07:48:54 · answer #4 · answered by Goggles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just let them cry it out. People need time to grieve and need to have a shoulder to lean on.
2007-02-08 07:47:03 · answer #5 · answered by CL R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is really nothing you can say just try to be their for them
2007-02-08 07:46:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry,but you making me bring back fresh memories!!!,dont want to think about it.
2007-02-08 07:49:00 · answer #7 · answered by oskido 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. i feel sorry 4 this but........................i'm ur frnd too. i'll like it being with u. come on cheer up...................................
2007-02-08 07:58:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋