does that make me a bad person and should i stay with her?
2007-02-08 07:40:22 · 16 answers · asked by ☼ robert ☼ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It makes your choice in women poor. Just keep in mind that if she gave her own kids up - she'll give you up too!
I would be too embarrassed to try and explain THAT one to my family - it wouldn't be worth it.
She isn't worth reproducing with or the risk.
2007-02-08 07:43:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you ask her to leave her kids with her mom? If so I think that makes you a little selfish, not bad. If she left her kids there on her on then she isn't a very good mom at all. I don't know all the facts. You are kinda vague with your answer. I would stay away from that young lady if I were you.
2007-02-08 07:45:06 · answer #2 · answered by forevereverizmine 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It make both of you bad people. Why have children if you are not going to take care of them properly. (for your girlfriend) Parents need to understand that children do not have the option of coming into this world or not. The parents make those decision themselves but when they get here, they don't want to except responsbility. Raising a child is hard but you don't give up on them b/c the mom is all they have. Their mom!!!! I feel sorry for those babies b/c the mom think more of a man than her own children. That make you look as guilty b/c you know what is going on and not doing nothing about it. Do you even care? If so, I would leave her or bring those kids to live with yall. Her mom has raised her, she doesn't need to be raisin her grandchildren too. Oh my god!!! I can tell ya my mom and dad definitely won't go for that. THey would make me except responsibility for my actions. If I'm going to lay down and have babies...well I"m going to see about them. If your girlfriend doesn't have sense enough to do that well you need to tell her.
2007-02-08 07:48:27 · answer #3 · answered by jetta 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it makes you a bad person but I think she will regret not having her children with her eventually. If not now, later in life. I'm not sure why you don't know if you should stay or not unless you somehow feel responsible. It is ultimately her decision because she is their Mom. If I were you I'd encourage her to spend as much time with her children as she can. If not, she'll miss out on some great memories of their childhood.
2007-02-08 07:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres no element in staying out of guilt. the fellow made the selection to leave his gf. Its particularly feasible in case you left him that he could come back with is ex So merely leave while you're no longer happy. It sounds like there is not any believe there It replaced right into a detrimental relationship from the commencing up and not lots good got here from an affair identity say he feels to blame approximately leaving his young infants besides start up a clean slate someplace else and dont get into an affair ever back
2016-11-02 22:05:30 · answer #5 · answered by hinch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you really concerned with what she will give you up for? I'm not trying to be mean here but anyone who would give up their flesh and blood CHILDREN who depend on their parents for everything, would turn on you eventually. Your conscience is trying to tell you something which says you are not totally morally bankrupt get out of this fast and urge her to go back to her kids they need their mother more than you need a partner.
2007-02-08 07:59:53 · answer #6 · answered by annetm2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes her a bad mother. Hasn't she ever heard of being responsible? Her poor mother is stuck raising her kids. So sad. What do you think she'll do if you have a kid with her and she meets someone new. Dump her. She obviously has ISSUES.
2007-02-08 07:50:30 · answer #7 · answered by Christabelle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a poor excuse for a woman. Just think of it this way, if you stay with her, you will soon be labled with her as i bad person. Everyone will be saying "if he thinks that is okay, he is just as bad as she is for staying with a woman who would do her kids that way." Get out while you can. Keep your good name.
2007-02-08 11:09:49 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend cares more about a man than the children she brought into this world. She pawned off her responsibility on her mother. It makes her a horrible person and makes you look like you agree with it. If she can leave her children for you, then who is she going to leave you for.
2007-02-08 07:44:29 · answer #9 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it makes her a bad person. Do you want kids in the future? If I were you I'd think long and hard about that.
2007-02-08 07:48:08 · answer #10 · answered by Lotus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋