He sometimes signs up for online single sites and chats. He says to see what kind of responses he'll get, but he's not really interested in meeting up with anybody. He did have an affair with my best friend about 4 years ago. He says it was because she pursued him and the attention felt good. He gets attention from me. I don't know what to think or how to feel.
2007-02-08 07:34:18 · 20 answers · asked by Tina J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This behavior is not right in a healthy relationship. Talk to your husband and let him know that you are uncomfortable with it. It also isn't good that he doesn't take ownership of his affair - your friend may have pursued him and the attention may have felt good, but did he ever hear of the word NO - I'm married. Unfortunately I feel that once a cheater, always a cheater, but I wish you the best of luck and God's blessings.
Ask your husband if he would go for counseling to see why he feels the need to explore the single life as a married man. Some people are not meant to be married, other's don't know what a good thing they have until they don't have it.
2007-02-08 07:39:08 · answer #1 · answered by tersey562 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but I think that your husband may not be 'actively looking' for someone, but he is at least 'open to another affair' ... and I would tell him that it is time for him to make a choice ... he can be married to you and not 'check out' the single sites on-line or go to 'singles bars' or anything else, or he can 'be single again' ... which means that you will DIVORCE HIM if his 'bad stuff' doesn't stop.
2007-02-08 07:44:23 · answer #2 · answered by Kris L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, He is looking for another affair! Any Married guy should not be signing up for SIngles Dating sites! He is a CHEATER. Put him to the Curb!!
2007-02-08 07:39:55 · answer #3 · answered by txshark67 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he may be window shopping.If he see's something he wants then he will probably go in the store.Watch him cause he is seeking a quick cheap thrill.If you want to find out what he is up to then all you have to do is go on line and set up a profile on the same site he's on.Send him a nice hello and see where it goes.
2007-02-08 07:42:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater, If you can make it on your own , get a legal separation and if you like the single life then file for divorce. Don't sit there and wait for to him to change, he is on the look out and he'll find it,. do him before he does you.
2007-02-08 07:41:04 · answer #5 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a joke question....You haven't learned from experience? And anyway, Why would you want to call someone who had an affair with your best friend your husband?
2007-02-08 07:41:18 · answer #6 · answered by L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out your marriage now. No married man would just be testing the internet waters if they were not going to take a dip. He is feeding you a line and you should not believe him. He will continue to play games with you and who needs that?
2007-02-08 07:42:21 · answer #7 · answered by metromishl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know you know but are blinded that he wants to be with someone else. tell him he has to stop. or join him. see if you can find some single guy friends and start a internet chat with them
2007-02-08 07:41:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should end it with him if he thinks he dosen't get enough attention from you than leave him. He lies also about the online chatting.
2007-02-08 07:38:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about you sign up at the same sites
and when he find out if he ask tell him the same thing you just want to see what is out their
2007-02-08 07:48:16 · answer #10 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋