Now I am probably one of the nicest people ever to walk the face of the earth. But yet, I have no friends what so ever, the few friends that I had tried to take advantage of me and I kicked them to the curb, I have never been in a relationship and everyone that I am attracted to say they would sleep with me but they won't date me, I mean what kind of messed up thing is that. But anyway I see all the ugly, mean guys with all the dates, and friends and here I am a educated, handsome, friendly man and I have neither. I have tried being mean but three minutes later I am back to friendly again I mean can someone please help me figure this out?
2007-02-08 07:32:47 · 5 answers · asked by BeBe 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
You poor thing, I'd date you in a second!
2007-02-08 07:40:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The problem is simply your attitude. You might be a little too arrogant or perhaps you are just too judgemental. Sounds like you are both from just reading your question. Ugly is how a person is, not what a person looks like and until you learn that, you are going to be alone. Thanks and I hope you get some help for that attitude. Perhaps you should invest in the Holy Bible. I know that would help.
2007-02-08 15:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you mean. I am afraid to trust anyone because it seems like people always just don't really want to be your friend, but they just want something else, so I am in college and I don't even talk to people unless I have to. I just go about my buisness. And I don't care that it seems like other people have friends, and I certainly don't care what anyone thinks. The only 2 "friends" I even have are 2 former roomates, and like we don't even really do anything, we just go about our buisness and see each other whenever we see each other on campus. None of us can drive either, and I just turned 21 and one of the other girls is 24 and the other is 20.
Say, how old are you? I need a bf:-)Lol.
2007-02-08 15:44:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well it happens to alot of people in our society. It's not really explainable. You simply have to make the best of it. I know that's kind of hard to do but you need to. Also sometimes people get annoyed with ppl when they act TO smart. Be smart but not to the point that your rubbing it in their faces. Also ppl just take advantage of ppl who are nice. But you just have to show that you won't take any of that sh**.
2007-02-08 15:57:04 · answer #4 · answered by Shadow Eclipse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you're to humble.
or maybe you're trying to meet people in the wrong places.
2007-02-08 15:45:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋