Why are white men SO OBSESSED WITH SKINNY WOMEN?

Question

No. I am not fat. I am 5'6 130 pounds. But the men I work and socialize with have actually publically threatened their wives that if they get fat or don't lose weight,they will divorce them. And these women are already size 6 or smaller. It is a sociology question. Thanks. What do you do with a size two woman?

Answer 1

Now, that is frightening to hear. These women are married to men with real serious mental problems! Just make sure you you choose a guy that loves you for you and not because of how skinny you are.

Most of the guys with these kinds of control/body image issues are very insecure with themselves, but project their feelings onto women instead. Unfortunately, it is their wives/gf's who suffer in the end. It is a way for these men to control and manipulate their partners, so they feel empowered. But it only leads the women to feel depressed and low on self esteem, it can even trigger an eating disorder.

Either these guys needs to get professional help before they wreck their marriage for good, or their wives/gf's should leave them and find a real man who loves them for them.

Women should not have to put up with men that make them feel less than ideal, these men forget that a relationship is a two way street and it is not all about them! They need to think of the feelings of their wives/gf's and make sure they are happy. These men are selfish, I can't believe anyone would want to marry them!

HTH : )

Answer 2

Where in hell do you work? A strip joint??

I have never heard a man ever publicly threaten his wife with divorce if she didn't lose weight.

5'6 130 probably isn't overweight. Depending on your frame, you should be between 120 and 140. Unless you have a stick-frame you aren't overweight.

Men are obsessed with ATTRACTIVE women. Thin is not the same as skinny. Skinny is a turn-off to most guys. Hip bones and ribs jutting out? Ugh! No thanks.

Actually a lot of guys like the idea of doing a girl who is just a lot smaller than themselves so they can carry them around, whatever...

Answer 3

All animals are attracted to the fittest and healthiest of the species.That includes humans. I am a size 2 but I'm not anorexic. I am just very athletic and only 5'3". It all depends on proportion. So, to answer your question: You do the same thing with a size 2 as you do with a size 6. I don't agree with a man threatening to leave his wife if she gets fat, but I also don't agree with people (men and women) letting themselves fall apart and get sloppy after marriage. That shows a lack of respect for yourself and your partner, not to mention the health issues.

Answer 4

hi,
it is the magazines they show girls at the size of 1's or 00's but no bigger than a 2 and they think that all women should look like that when in real life that size is not passable unless you starve yourself.
think about the Romans and how they once loved there women were not not the size 00's or the 1's they were more like the 12's and the larger sizes. just think how great it would be ii we lived that way now.

Answer 5

these should kick those man ***
because this is mental abuse
and not all white man I was size 4 when I met my h who happen to be white & French he been trying to get me to gain weight for the past 2 years his idea of a sexy woman is someone that have meat on their bone at least size 10 so far I am trying it has been 3 years and now with all the french food I am finally size 6/8

Answer 6

White guys are odessesd with sexy women,period. Some may have a preference for skinny, other's may not. The white guys I met loved thick women,like myself,and they mostly are very sexy looking white guys lol. So really,white guys are not odessesd with skinny women they are odessesd with beautiful women just like any other man out there...

Answer 7

I don't like skinny women, I think 5'6 130 lbs would be a bit to skinny for me. I like a woman who is maybe 5 to 10 lbs over the idea weight for her height. They look more healthy.

As for these dudes who threaten their wives with divorce due to gaining weight or failing to lose it. I just love those guys for being the jerks they are. Cause their women are our banging the daylights out of us single guys and loving every minute of it.

Answer 8

I noticed that... and it sucks so bad. BUT if you get in the conversation then you will be involved, yeah maybe you aren't the first one to be talked to, but make sure you aren't too shy, don't be the girl in the background. Show people personality, just because you don't notice anyone paying attention to you, because your skinny friends are getting all this attention, doesn't mean someone isn't attracted to you :) Confidence and a good personality is one MAJOR turn on... looks is just a way to get attention from shallow people. Good people don't care about weight, race, religion... all that. I am one of the fat girls in the group, but I don't let that stop me from showing people who I am. And that in itself keeps me in the conversation and involved.

Answer 9

No offense, but 5'6" 130 - woof. Would have to see a photo. I'm a 6'1" man and I weigh 185.

ANYWAY, men don't like skinny bony chicks. Bleccch. Little teenage boys might because that way you can see the woman's fake boobs better, but men are not interested in skinny bony piles of clothes hangers.

I like curves - hips, a*s*s, nice breasts. Just no gunt, belly slop, pork slop handles hanging over too-too-impossibly tight low rise jeans (bleccch! only 1 in 10,000 women look good in low rise), bingo arms -- none of that.

But meat and curves? bring it on, babydoll!!!

Answer 10

You work with freaks. Where is the love? You don't divorce someone you love if she dare goes up a dress size.