I caught my husband looking a girls in our area on the internet and i found out he has been texting my friend while i am not home,asking her to come over but i havent found any text where he is saying why he wants her to come over.i have searched the whole house and i havent found any condoms or anything.but i dont know what to do, i asked him last week if theres was anything going on but he said no.i dont know what to do..any advice?
2007-02-08 07:28:31 · 11 answers · asked by mybabylove87 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Here are my conclusions:
1. You two are not on the same page regarding your relationship. Not enough time together and not enough honesty. Someone is in denial. Not clear whether it's one or both of you.
2. The physical part of your marriage is in very serious trouble, if it exists at all. Marriage takes work and that's not happening.
3. There are few shared goals for your household and marriage beyond paying the bills and sharing meals. There is no unity. You are doing your thing and he is doing his. Ships passing in the night.
4. You need to decide right now which direction to go. Do you want to make the marriage work or do you want a divorce? I see several red flags and they have nothing to do with condoms.
2007-02-08 07:43:48 · answer #1 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a detective and let him do the work he can find more out then you can if you don't want to do that talk to your friend you can tell if she is hiding something or not or just act as if your going out park around the corner an spy if you see your friend show up walk in the house slowly and sneak in on them to see for your self the truth will hurt but at least you will know the truth and you will know not to have that friend as a friend and your husband as a husband any more...praying for you....
2007-02-08 15:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by tlcoufan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your eyes open and the checkbook close by so you can make a run for it if you need to. From what you wrote something's up...you know "where there's smoke" there's a four alarm fire. So be prepared and smart.
2007-02-08 15:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Condoms aren't going to give you an answer.
A condom is probably the furthest from hismind.
It's loud and clear dear, that he's a cheater. Open your eyes, then open the door and kick his butt out of it.
2007-02-08 15:33:00 · answer #4 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex-husband cheated on me and It all started on the internet, chatting, and looking for "friends". Keep a close eye and him and He will lie about it. Dump him if he cheats.
2007-02-08 15:33:29 · answer #5 · answered by Ali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you know and what you suspect and get it out in the open
2007-02-08 15:35:10 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep an eye on him
2007-02-08 15:31:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep snooping til you find some substantial evidence. ;)
2007-02-08 15:32:49 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They could flush the condoms.Id send him steppin'.
2007-02-08 15:32:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
show him what you found. then see what he has to say
2007-02-08 15:32:25 · answer #10 · answered by tallyluver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋