they started fighting the weekend we went and saw Justin Timberlake and that was 2 weeks ago, I usually talk to my cousin daily and the last 2 weeks have been hell, because they are no longer speaking to each other, I don't wanna get in the middle of the fight so I just decided that I dont wanna deal with it! Does any one know what I should do??
Thanks
2007-02-08 07:27:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I feel for you. I've been there. I would recommend letting them cool off, then set up a meeting between them, and yourself, where they can clear the air. Make it clear how much you love them both and how much it hurts you that they don't get along, so you want them to mend things before it gets too far out of control. You don't want to be put in the position to take sides. Good luck!!
2007-02-08 07:35:14 · answer #1 · answered by Shelley L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well unfortunately even when you don't wanna be in the middle of it, You are! Because it is affecting you, personally. I think you should sit down with both of them and let them realize how this spaz is making you unhappy. And even though they may have some differences, there both a part of your family and its part of family relationships to fight hand make up. Tell them how it hurts you and want some peace back. Maybe they my consider your feelings than there fight! Good luck.
2007-02-08 07:32:54 · answer #2 · answered by Yuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get hints from your husband of how intense the fight was...if you think its something minor then leave it as it is...no need to worry on small things in relationships....but if you find out that your husband still has hard feelings for her then try to find out what went wrong and why.
2007-02-08 07:35:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your cousin needs a chum superb now. although, you're superb that he needs to hit all-time low. Your husband needs to tell you cousin that he needs to spend time with him yet no longer the medicine. Then he needs to refuse to be around him whilst he's intense. He needs to stick to his convictions and be a stable occasion for his chum. settle for the guy yet deny the undesirable habit.
2016-11-02 22:04:22 · answer #4 · answered by hinch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
continue to talk to your hubby but do NOT discuss your hubby or what happened between her and your cousin. THIS is how you stay out of it while maintaining your relationship with your friend. Tell them both that you are not going to be made uncomfy by THEIR situation and STAY neutral.
2007-02-08 07:49:35 · answer #5 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit them down and told them how you feel about them and told them to get over it because you need both of them
since they also love you they need to fix the matter ASAP
And also you have no intention of taking side or be in the middle of it
2007-02-08 07:35:27 · answer #6 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll you didn't specify what caused the problem so i can't really help but what ever the reason is you should try to smooth things out hear every sides story and DON'T TAKE SIDES
2007-02-08 07:33:02 · answer #7 · answered by alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the ref! Invite them to the WWF. No, seriously...stay out of it. It's their problems. You just pretend is not happening, unless they share it with you.
2007-02-08 07:31:06 · answer #8 · answered by ОГОНЬ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋