More than often, some (described as) beautiful young females answer some questions, with un-proportioned hostility. Astonishing expressions of anger and rejection of humanity. Is it possible that in some civilized areas, politeness is just considered to be a recessive expression of the ugly? Do you identify with this kind of behavior? Or were you a victim of such reckless behavior?
2007-02-08 07:18:47 · 14 answers · asked by Night Hawk 4 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Some are insecure or feel that they have not truly earned the attention and admiration that they are given simply becaue of God given looks. Many might have been treated badly by people who wished to possess them for their looks alone. They may have been abused, fondled and threatened as well. Its a little bit of a stereotype though because in my life I have encountered incredibly beautiful women who are involved in giving professions such as medicine, education and social services. I think I know what you are saying and have seen some of that but there are probalby many others who do not fit that description.
2007-02-08 07:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by Tom W 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I know some beautiful women that are kind hearted, but men actually make that difficult for them.
Men are taught that they are the pursuer, and the one that gets the beautiful woman wins. (course there are other games where the one with the ugliest woman wins too). Sometimes, they don't take 'no' for an answer, and rather than go through all the niceties of a kind rejection, which can even be misinterpreted as interest, beautiful women lay it on the line.
"Don't pine after me. It won't happen now or in the future. Ever"
It's almost a kind thing to do with some people, because confusion could otherwise prolong an unhealthy infatuation.
There are women that take the rejection to painful extremes, but you have to wonder how many "Mr. Wrong's" have diligently and unyeildingly pursued them.
Don't take it personal.
Live well
2007-02-08 15:51:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think part of the problem is that attractive women are lathered with attention, both negative and positive, invited and not invited, to the point that interacting with people becomes more of a chore than a pleasure. They are used to people wanting something from them and I think that starts to seep into their interactions with others. In addition, they don't really suffer any negative consequences from acting rudely so the behavior is reinforced. There are always exceptions to the rule, where extremely beautiful women are gracious and warm. Just as there are a heck of a lot of ugly rude people.
I somewhat identify with this behavior (as a perpetrator not a victim), but as I've gotten older the attention has waned, and I've (hopefully ) become more mature.
2007-02-08 08:15:28 · answer #3 · answered by Tara P 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL, thanks for the laugh. No, I do not identify with this type of behavior. And yes from time to time I think we have or will all become a victim of such reckless behavior if we live long enough. LOL. And no manners and politeness are not a recessive gene for the ugly. Politeness is reserved for those with common sense and manners. Have a great day. God bless****
2007-02-08 08:05:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I used to be against wearing makeup...but after trying the stuff, I noticed a big difference in my features! Mascara, eye shadow and liner compliment the eyes! You can make them look bigger, sexier or even bring out your natural eye color even more. Foundation "hides" blemishes or uneven skin tones, giving your face a smooth and even look. Blush is always fun as it adds a pinch of red/pink! At night it's always fun too! I was a tomboy until I turned 20 three years ago. I hated make-up and saw it so superficial, but I am so in love with it now! Women are beautiful with or without makeup. Make up is just fun! Like the frosting, sprinkles, and cherry on top of a cake! I don't know about men wearing make-up though...I guess it would add color to their faces, but what for? I believe they should definitely be groomed though! Those unibrows just don't do it for me!
2016-05-23 22:01:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think some do feel that they are 'owed' and demand to be the center of attention and hate it when they aren't. Then again. some are not hostile in any sense but are deeply caring human beings. And some do have a reason for their hostility. Because they are beautiful, many assume that is all they are. This can damage the self esteem and lead to hostility because they are expecting the put down to come and try to get it in first.
2007-02-08 07:31:08 · answer #6 · answered by Elizabeth Howard 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some of them don't know how to set up boundaries. Those that are angry are probably suffering from a low sense of "self" because they don't know how to handle all that attention they're getting, so they emit a load of negativity towards others...
Or, quite simply, they didn't make the right choices and are very unhappy, so they release all that negative energy by attempting to bring others down to their own level.
2007-02-08 07:42:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
beautiful women are hostile cuz they think they can what they want.. cuz they have been in situations before of taking adavantage cuz their are pretty..and if they know that they are pretty its even worse...
you dont even need to tell them that they are pretty cuz they hear it so many times from other guys.
they also feel very insecure about other beautiful women being on top of them thats why they need to defend themselves..
beauty is only in the eye of the beholder...
All I can say is, Looks do not last forever.....
how do i know?? styles, fashion, beauty, looks are constantly changing...
how many of you girls get subscription magazines every month?
every page that you turn telling you ... you are ugly, you need this clothing, or your hair is ugly you need this type of hair...etc.
im not saying dont take care of your looks....
you should but you shouldnt be so extreme about....
you should care...... but not this far.... how women act like beauty is the only in a person..
you can tell which type of women are shallow and which are not..
2007-02-08 09:41:50 · answer #8 · answered by david 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some of us beautiful hostile women are just ticked off at the world for all the unfair injustices or the way we are judged (usually as boring, mindless beings only good for sex) and frankly...I'm sick of it. And humanity? I love all God's creatures but I don't like them. Humanity has no idea of what is right and wrong and I can't take all the morons I run into. Everyday...I'm surrounded by them. Of course, it could also be my pregnancy hormones pissing me off to.
2007-02-08 07:29:01 · answer #9 · answered by boz4425 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Ive noticed the same characteristic in alot of men who fit the same description. Its called being self absorbed. They do not have to care about having manners because nobody makes them have to care.
2007-02-08 08:29:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋