i have ask my husband a few times if any woman has ever flirted with him or came on to him and he said no but i find that hard to believe NOT cause he looks like george clooney(but he is a good lookin man)but because every man has been flirted with by other woman and sometime in their life a woman im sure has come on to them..And i only ask him cause i was just curious NOT cause i dont trust him. So my question is how to ask hubby again without him being uncomfortable or feeling like he might hurt my feelings by telling me..Like i said i am just curious about this.
2007-02-08 07:15:52 · 11 answers · asked by sally d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well if he did tell me another woman flirted with him i WOULDNT throw it in his face..why would i do that. It wouldnt be his fault if that happened
2007-02-08 07:33:03 · update #1
First of all - he's telling you no because he doesn't trust YOU. He doesn't trust you that you won't fly off the handle by telling you the truth.
2007-02-08 07:30:38 · answer #1 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let this go. If you keep asking him it may seem that you are saying that you do not trust him. That if a woman flirted with him that it is somehow his fault. Maybe he thinks it would upset you to tell you if someone did flirt with him and that you would throw it in his face later on during a fight. Or it could simply be that he is so in love with you he just doesn't pay attention to other women who may be flirting with him. Whatever the case don't pursue this any further.
2007-02-08 15:27:21 · answer #2 · answered by navy wife 1996 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he is a good looking guy chances are other women agree with you as well. Because a good looking, unavailable man, is like a chick magnet for some. And before you go and ask again are you sure you are not opening a load of insecurities on your footsteps?. Sometime the question asked is not the real question we really need to ask. Are you sure that this is the question you really want to know?
2007-02-08 15:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is this important to you? Stop asking, unless you want trouble. My ex looks like Brad Pitt but taller. It was obvious that people flirted with him. Take it as a given.
2007-02-08 15:20:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife goes on about this. She says someone was checking me out or flirting with me... Sometimes it's obvious but most times I honestly don't notice or pick up on it.
He is probably the same so I would leave well enough alone if I were you.
2007-02-08 15:27:05 · answer #5 · answered by Bill I 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he's obviously not comfortable telling you, and if you know that all men have been flirted with, then you know he has, so why pester him? Just be secure in the knowledge that he is married to you.
2007-02-08 15:20:47 · answer #6 · answered by me! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop it. You are asking for trouble. Why are you trying to fix something that's not broken? Be happy with your husband and let that petty stuff go.
2007-02-08 15:20:50 · answer #7 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It obviously makes him uncomfortable to talk about, and maybe it makes him uncomfortable when women do it - either way I would just let it go!
2007-02-08 15:26:51 · answer #8 · answered by infieri4short 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should let this question go. If he said no, trust him. Sometimes, even when they are goodlooking they are not approached because they look unavailable. Pray that's it.
2007-02-08 15:21:35 · answer #9 · answered by noitall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does it matter? If it makes him uncomfortable and the only reason you're asking is mere curiosity, just drop it.
2007-02-08 15:28:14 · answer #10 · answered by ♪ ♫Jin_Jur♫ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋