If u were married to a guy who was very sweet,kind,loving,affectionate and treated u like a queen but he had a low sex drive...Would u leave him cause of his low sex drive
2007-02-08 06:52:02 · 43 answers · asked by sally d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No! If I married him, I'm stuck with him.
2007-02-08 06:57:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand outside of the box you just created and look at it from the outside. How would you feel if you were on the outside looking in on your situation? In most relationships sex plays a big part just as much as the other priorities but when you have a man who treats you the way you want to be treated but sexually isn't what you want you gotta think to yourself if you wanted to trade in your emotional happiness just for sex. Do you believe that you can find someone who can treat you the way he does and still have a very high sex drive? if so then yes leave but, 9 times out of 10 you won't and I'm not saying you have to be miserable with your partner either but look at the big picture if you're happy you're happy think of ways to build his sex drive.
2007-02-08 06:58:48 · answer #2 · answered by bettyspagettii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow... Considering i just read this reminds me of my husband. As many of the answers above. lots of women say no. I wouldn't leave my husband because of that reason. But i will let you know that sometimes if the female has a larger sex drive. It does cause problems, sometimes the female feels unattractive to the male and starts to fault herself for not feeling that sexual wantness. I will be realistic lots of women could consider leaving not because of the low sex drive, But because that low sex drive does sometimes cause "some" women problems. Its hard to deal with, but if talking about it and working hard to make it a bit more erotic for both partners its not so bad. I hope this helped :D
2007-02-08 07:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by Yuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has been my experience in 16 years of marriage that sex drives change. Life happens...so no, I don't belive that is a good enough reason to leave your husband. Like mentioned already there could be health issues that cause it...but also, do you give him reasons to *want* it? Sometimes adding spice, reading erotica, changing things up, just even a little bit, can help jump start the bedroom again. Sex is important in a realtionship, but it's like the moon, it waxes and wanes.
2007-02-08 06:59:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly. it would depend on one's own sexual needs and the what the rest of the relationship was like... Would I leave him because of it, well, I would probably be aware of it before the marriage and if something changed our sex live s that drastically I would want him checked out by a doctor or two...besides there are things you can try...leaving a marriage under those circumstances for that reason should be the last thing you do before trying other things...but I would say I might stay to a low sex drive but I wouldn't probably stay for no sex drive...or rather, no sex...sex is not everything but it is, in my opinion, part of a healthy marriage.
2007-02-08 06:57:01 · answer #5 · answered by kewtber 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, sex is sex, love is all of the things you listed you are. If it matters to her that your sex drive is low then she's missing the whole point of love. Just keep assureing her that you do love her and there is no one else that you just have a lack of sex drive, and it has nothing to do with her or how she looks.
2007-02-08 07:04:49 · answer #6 · answered by Cyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! If he's nice in all those other ways, I wouldn't leave him. I'd find other ways to pleasure myself.
He needs to at least try to be considerate of my feelings.. Like he should have sex with me at least once a month. If he couldn't do that, I'd start to feel like he doesn't want me.
Another plus of having a guy with a low sex drive is that he probably won't cheat on you just to get laid. That's always good! :)
2007-02-08 07:01:33 · answer #7 · answered by •√¡rgő• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that sex is part of being married, but it isn't everything. Maybe you should talk to the guy before you jump the gun...I personally would stick to my man. Sometimes they just go through a phase where sex just isn't as important to them. But, you won't know until you ask. Has this always been a problem for him? Good luck!
2007-02-08 06:57:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would not leave them because of that I would just go buy me a toy or something. If you really love someone you won't leave them just because they have a low sex drive you will go see about find something to help you please yourself when he is down. Hope that makes you feel a little better!
2007-02-08 06:56:02 · answer #9 · answered by Teresa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to be honest, If it causes a problem and he isn't willing to fix it than its just like fighting all the time, it wont be resolved. And something that can't be fixed can't be fixed. I would leave if he wasn't willing to find out why he had a low sex drive. most men do it themselves rather than get it from their wives.
2007-02-08 06:58:49 · answer #10 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I wouldn't. When you get married you promise you will be with the person through sickness and health. When you are married you have to learn to work things out with your partner. If your spouse really loves you they would be more than willing to do that. If not I don't think you should really be together. That is just how I feel.
2007-02-08 06:56:51 · answer #11 · answered by StaLynnCey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋