how should i tell my mom dat im pregnant?
2007-02-08 06:44:00 · 10 answers · asked by la loca 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
There is no good way to do if (if it's bad news). Just sit her down, and tell her.
If it's good news (perhaps you're married and have been trying for a while)...find a cool gift to give her that tells her.
2007-02-08 06:47:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit her down in a nice comfortable place but also private. Tell her you have some well some would say good news... some would say bad... just tell her that you found out your pregnant. Let her scream yell cry do what she needs to do to get herself prepared. She may say things that she will probably definitely regret later.. or she may not... don't take anything she says negatively to heart... wait for an hour for her to calm down... then listen to her. Tell her what you want to do and plan to do... tell her who the baby's daddy is just let her know everything that had been going on prior that led up to this. Just be patient with her... goodluck
2007-02-08 14:57:09 · answer #2 · answered by sleepyincarolina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her. I debated and debated and stressed myself out about it for almost a month about how i was going to tell her...and my father. It was not the easiest thing i've done, especially under the circumstances, but once the words were out, i felt such a relief, and her reaction was the complete opposite. She was so excited and happy for me. I was shocked but excited as well. If your situation is not the best and that is what's worrying you, just make sure that you have already made up your mind about what you wanna do. Sit her down and just tell her. She may be shocked, upset, disappointed or whatever...but eventually her maternal instincts will kick in and the thought of a new baby...her grandbaby coming will overwhelm her and she'll be excited as well....Good luck and congratulations.
2007-02-12 14:49:57 · answer #3 · answered by Christen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her Grandma and see how she reacts.
Just kidding - sorry. Anyway, just have a sit down talk with her. If things get out of hand, leave and come back when she has cooled off. She loves you and she will understand after the initial blow wears off.
2007-02-08 14:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out to eat at a sit down restaurant and tell them that way they will be calm by the time you leave because they cant make a big scene in a restaurant without getting asked to leave.. i had to do it that way. it worked out great
2007-02-08 14:47:59 · answer #5 · answered by April B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...i took the wimpy way out and txt her. she hates the baby's father, and im the youngest and not married n i knew she'd be furious...which she was, them calmed down, then i found out she was spreading it around that i don't kno the baby's father!! and that apparently it was one of siz people who could be the dad!! what an evil mother i hav. i emailed my dad ( he lives in Spain) n he was just happy taht i told him BEFORE the baby was born, unlike my half brother who told him when his baby was 9 months old!!! lol...silly brother
2007-02-08 15:14:04 · answer #6 · answered by evilbunnyhahaha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit her down and tell her now good luck
2007-02-08 14:48:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mom , please listen to me and don't be mad and please don't ask any questions until i finish my speech ok?
all right Mom ??!! am pregnant , it was an accident , i was stupid and soo in love please mom forgive me , and please look at the light side !! am gonna be a mother , just like you mama , you should be proud .
2007-02-08 14:51:47 · answer #8 · answered by Donets'k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be honest and just tell them out right "don't beat around the bush"
2007-02-08 14:49:33 · answer #9 · answered by kailey0819 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite her to dinner and tell her during dessert. And congrats.
2007-02-08 14:48:13 · answer #10 · answered by prettydarling1000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋