My husband told my friend that our house is his home away from home. His parents live in another state and he has only had his new job for 3 weeks what do you think he meant by that?
2007-02-08 06:42:49 · 18 answers · asked by hot chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we have been married for 5 years and have a five m,onth old baby
2007-02-08 06:53:24 · update #1
what he may mean by what he said is that you house is just like a second home to him.. His "home" is with his parents.. give him a little time to adjust..
2007-02-08 06:47:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I am very, very sorry that you are going through this now. It sounds like a whole lot of things are going on here. 1. If you don't trust him then you do not need to be with him. (Married or not). 2. If you had a gut feeling that something was wrong then you should stick to that feeling. 3. Found a support group (friends and family) to discuss your feelings, if not get a counselor right away. 4. Your husband needs to grow up and take responsibility for his actions. He should tell the truth. If he has lied in the past about these two people, he will lie again. His activities sounds very, very suspicion and you are entitled to your feelings. So, if he cannot cut them off completely then something is wrong. You are his wife and he should respect that as well as the other two. If he cannot understand that then you should make a decision. Is this man worth your peace a mind or health? Your children should not have to go through this either. So, you have to make some serious decision. Remember to take care of you because nobody else will. Good Luck and Best Wishes!
2016-03-28 22:25:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it just meant that being where you are now is his home away from home and that where he was born or raised will always be home.......I wouldn't worry to much about it. If you are still concerned just watch him for a bit.......men who are doing the things they know better than to do......always always slip up and get caught. good luck but like I said .......I am certain he was talking about his parents house being home that's all!
2007-02-08 06:47:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is he getting used to the new area. you home is where you were raised etc. i still feel like new york is my home even though have lived in another state for the past 14 years! dont' take it personal but more importantly why not just ask him what he meant?
2007-02-08 06:46:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's ummmm....that's......that's a little wierd. Was he living at his parents' when you got married? Maybe he's just not used to not being there.Still, if I were married I think I'd instantly know home is where the beautiful wife is.
2007-02-08 06:51:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. Tell him that you want to know what it means because its been bothering you.
i think he means that he is working his new job so much that he isn't home often so he feels like your house is his home away from home/work.
2007-02-08 06:48:25 · answer #6 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably nothing! It depends on how long you have been married! Don't waste your time worrying about it if he comes home to you every night.
2007-02-08 06:52:35 · answer #7 · answered by miss-snoopy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask him ? If he has a reasonable answer, OK, otherwise keep an eye on him to see where his other home is.
2007-02-08 06:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope he did not it does not matter how good friends you are you are married and needs to find a place of his own.
2007-02-08 06:46:51 · answer #9 · answered by Carlina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might just want your friend to feel at home till he gets on his feet being far from his state
2007-02-08 06:48:52 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋