the problem is that nowadays i see her with a guy who's not at all fit for her..as in i kno for sure that he'll hurt her..how do i tell her this?
2007-02-08 06:42:07 · 7 answers · asked by schizo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
there is no way you can tell her this without hurting her feelings, tell her how you feel, if she feels the same things will work out! but if he does end up hurting her the best thing you can do is to just be there for her when she needs you most!
2007-02-08 06:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by Jess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody's ever gonna be right for her...except you, right? You should have been a man about it when you had the chance, instead of the "waiting friend" who's only lurking around to pick up her broken pieces, (or most likely waiting for her panties to fall off) Yeah, I know...I'm brutal about it, but I'm sick and tired of hearing wimpy little snivelers cry about why girls don't like THEM instead. Girls DON'T like weak men...PERIOD. You should have the guts to tell her directly and take your chances, rather than waiting silently in the wings for the day she wants a WUSS. Now you want to sabatoge her present relationship..."Oh, he'll hurt her" So what? It's not your business at this point! Either throw your chips on the table and play straight up, or stop whining about somebody cheating from the safety of the peanut gallery. Geez, was there a severe testosterone shortage I'm not aware of?
2007-02-08 06:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by woobinator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
XxXâ¥I think you may be a little bit jealous. I'm not being rude, but I think you want to believe that there's something wrong with this guy, 'cuz he has what you want. Don't tell her anything about him. Let her see for herself. Trust her judgement a little more & maybe she will see that for herself.â¥XxX
2007-02-08 07:08:50 · answer #3 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, its HER life, and you should let her live it. its up to her to decide who's fit for her and who isn't. don't be jealous of the guy that she's with. i mean, if you like her, tell her how you feel. i'm pretty sure she wouldn't appreciate it if you tried to tell her who she should and shouldn't go out with. but if you feel that she is in danger, let her know that if she doesn't tell the police, YOU will. but if she isn't in danger, and just isn't into you, then try your best to move on.
2007-02-08 06:48:11 · answer #4 · answered by Yvette S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her, because she''l never believe you, just be ready to pick up the pieces when he hurts her, she'll need someone then.
2007-02-08 06:47:10 · answer #5 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell her that you are concerned about her, and that she needs to be in love with you....
seriously just warn her about this guy and if she doesnt listen then theres nothing you can do about it.
2007-02-08 06:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by Bored&Broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
warn her as a friend, but she'll have to find out for herself. she may not listen to you because you love her. But you are looking out for her.
2007-02-08 06:46:06 · answer #7 · answered by islandgrl2011 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋