I Have Never Gotten Along With Any Of Her Boyfriends But Him And I Recently Hit It Off Really Well And Have Been Bonding And Hanging Out A Lot. She Keeps Telling Me I Am Stealing Her Guy Away From Her And My Girlfriend Even Kinda Of Agrees But I Am Trying To Explain To Them Both That We Are Both Guys Who Need To Be Able To Discuss Guy Things, And There Are Only Certian Things A Guy Can And Will Understand About Another Guy. My Girlfriend Thinks I Am Now Keeping Secrets And My Bestfriend Now Keeps Ruining Every Time Him And I Make Plans. Whats A Pair Of Two 23 Y/O Males To Do?
2007-02-08 06:25:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well you are both old enough to make your own decisions, but when you both have girlfriends you cannot neglect them. You guys want to hang out fine, but you shouldn't be taking time away from them. You're making them both the third wheel without even realizing that you are doing it. Set certain days where you two can go out, then make certain days where you'll take the girls out. Then let them have their alone time and you and her have your alone time. Are your girlfriend and best friend, friends? Let them hang out together, so they can become interested in each other so that they can hang out when you two want to hang out. If I were your girlfriend I'd be upset, before your best friend's boyfriend, you were spending time with your best friend, now your spending time with the boyfriend. So give her some time with you. Good luck sweetie!!!!
2007-02-08 06:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
XxXâ¥I agree with another answer. You're adults & you are entitled to whatever the heck you want to do, but you can't forget about your girlfriends. Anyways, if I were you, I'd talk to both my friend & girlfriend. You need to tell your friend that you're not gay & you would never try to steal anyone away from her. It's stupid to get mad at you just 'cuz you have a good friendship with someone that she once dated. Then, you should explain to your girlfriend that you aren't hiding ANYTHING from her & she should trust you, 'cuz you're dating her, not him.â¥XxX
2007-02-08 07:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, wow thats alot of drama in your life. Try making more plans with your girlfriend than him it will help loosen the tension. I mean your sopuse to send more time with the person your with than anyone else.
2007-02-08 06:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by wish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't spend too much time together. Make it once a week, then I'm sure they won't have a problem.
2007-02-08 06:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happy valentine's day
2007-02-08 06:29:22 · answer #5 · answered by Emo_Gurl™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋