I'm 17 years old and im in the 11th grade in high school. I heard a group of girls talk about me in the bathroom. Saying "oh noone likes her, shes an obnoxious, arrogant, conceited and so stuck up no wonder she has no friends" like anyone else would, I'd deny it. In math class, every time my teacher asks a question, noone knew the answer except me, i call out the correct answer and everyone looked so annoyed. and every time someone needs help, and asks a question, I'm always the one calling out before the teacher. Everytime i bought some real cool stuff, i often show it off, just so everyoone can pay attention to me. I often sneak a section of the school newspaper even though im not allowed to read it unless its distribute, just so everyone can see that i work for the school paper. When my class says im the smartest one in class im often so proud of myself, and people always ask me for the correct answer to each test, and i gladly told them.
I want to change. i need advice!
2007-02-08 06:23:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
When you're around people remember this. People don't care how much you know till they know how much you care. Being a knowitall or whatever can make people feel self concious. If you make them feel that way they'll find people who don't make them feel that way.
2007-02-08 06:45:49 · answer #1 · answered by skymanat7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
XxXâ¥Just because you're smart & know the answers doesn't mean they should think that way about you. Everyone in this whole entire world has the smarts as good as you do, but they don't use them as well. When you buy stuff, don't brag or show them off. With my experience, I have found that to be annoying & people will see you as being arrogant or concieted. Even if you aren't, flaunting things is annoying to lots of people. That would be the reason why they call you concieted & arrogant, so don't show off anymore. When people tell you you're the smartest person in the class, tell them what I just tod you: Everyone has the same smarts. It just depends on how they use them.-Also, don't look so proud 'cuz of your achievements. BE proud of yourself 'cuz of the great reputation you have recieved, but don't linger in that moment. I hope this helped.â¥XxX
2007-02-08 15:46:52 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read what you have written and try not to do so much of the showing off part. Don't act out for attention. Just take what comes to you naturally.
2007-02-08 14:31:16 · answer #3 · answered by major b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't make everyone likes u, i know u r sad and i know that sure anyone wants everyone to like him , but u have to behave normally, trust ur self and don't care about anyone who don't care for u, why do u tell them the answers of their questions
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don't u think that it would be better if u just didn't care for them, try to find the real person who deserves ur help, ur kindness and ur good treatment, and treat people as they do.
2007-02-08 14:40:35 · answer #4 · answered by citrine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happy valentines day
2007-02-08 14:27:30 · answer #5 · answered by Emo_Gurl™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋